(Closed) Asking 2 of 3 Closest College Friends to be BM

posted 6 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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Honey bee

include only the people you are both closest to.

Post # 4
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Bumble bee

If I were you, I’d try to invite all three of them, depending on how distant you feel from the third. Don’t worry about pressuring your SO to find three groomsmen; there’s nothing wrong with uneven bridal parties.

Post # 5
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: May 2013 - The bride's hometown United Methodist Church near Kalamazoo

Could you include the third that you’re not as close to now in another capacity, like a reader or guestbook attendant? If not, could you have uneven sides? It’s completely normal for one side to have more or less attendants than the other! I think though it really comes down to how you think the third friend will react. I would definitely tell her that you want her to be involved and be honest with her–you can only have 2 bridesmaids. If you think she will take that well, great; if not, and it’s not worth risking your friendship over hurting her friendship over, then I would make her a bridesmaid. 

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