(Closed) Asking a 4th Bridesmaid

posted 6 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

I added a bridesmaid 8 months after the first 2 and she was thrilled, but I would tread lightly.  It’s really dependent on the person, but you should obviously never tell her why.

Post # 5
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

Are they all good friends?  I think that’s when it gets really sticky.  My first two were good friends.  My third only met my Maid/Matron of Honor a handful of times and never met the other one until they were trying on Bridesmaid or Best Man dresses, so it wasn’t awkward at all.

Post # 7
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581 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

My fear was that she wouldn’t feel special or be hurt she wasn’t asked with the rest.  I really don’t think she would reject you.  Honestly, if you think she might then maybe she’s not the right one anyway.

It would be nice to do something special for her, though.  Like maybe get her something nice or take her to lunch.  Something you didn’t do with the other 3, so she gets to be up on a little pedistal for a little bit.

Good luck!

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