Asking Your Bridesmaids

posted 2 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 16
194 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: Backyard

I asked one in person and the other during the course of a texted conversation.

Post # 17
462 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2019

Post # 18
8724 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: Dorset, UK

mege15 :  I tolder my sister I was having her as my Maid/Matron of Honor (she wanted to be anyway and knew she would be so didn’t even really have to “ask”) and me and by best friend just chatted about it. Super  low key. I kind of find it a bit mad that people make it such a big deal though personally.

Post # 19
1258 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2018

I wrote “Will you be my Bridesmaid?” cards that were heartfelt. Everyone loved them!

Post # 20
431 posts
Helper bee

It doesn’t have to be anything big and over the top and Pinterest-fancy. I made some cute cards and wrote notes in them because who doesn’t like getting a card? 🙂 I was asked in a phone call for both the weddings I was in. 

(These pictures like being sideways. *shrug)

Post # 21
2799 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2017

I sent “will you be my bridesmaid?” cards in the mail, since I lived very far away from all my bridesmaids. Otherwise I would have just asked in person! 

Post # 22
12 posts
  • Wedding: January 2019

mege15 :  A friend asked me just by giving me a card, and I was so surprised and happy with that!! I happen to be going all out for my bridesmaids, however, I’ve had months to plan, craft and save soo that’s why!! Thank the lord for sales at Michaels and Hobby Lobby!

Post # 23
333 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2018

We asked our Maid/Matron of Honor and Best Man as soon as we got engaged. It was actually the way we told them we were engaged, super funny to see the confusion and then excitement bubble up as they realised what was happening. 

Post # 24
1363 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2018 - Banquet Hall/Conference Center

A letter and flower sound lovely! To be honest I got my girls a card and a personalized leather luggage tag from Etsy (they are all out of state so it made sense at the time), and it really wasn’t necessary. The card would have sufficed. The cost of having (and being) a bridesmaid can really skyrocket with all the little things closer to the wedding so save your money on the early stuff.

As for how many girls, if it’s a group of 4, then just invite all 4. Not to be a Debbie Downer, but chances are someone will drop out eventually anyway, either due to something that comes up or because of bridesmaid/friendship drama.

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