(Closed) Assistance needed on bridesmaid situation – maid of honor MIA

posted 7 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
4886 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

Personally I don’t think being ‘promoted’ to Maid/Matron of Honor (which will give you three ‘of honors’… ) or ‘allow’ing her to do a speech is a great way to say thanks.  I also think it’s inappropriate to give her a toast.


So…I vote gift.  But a good, personal gift after the wedding.  Or just take her to lunch and let her know how much you appreciate it.

Post # 5
2239 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

I also vote gift.  She didn’t step up her game to be promoted — she did it because she loves you.  So maybe think of something she really likes and make a gift basket. Or, plan a thank you lunch with her (just her) when you get back from your honeymoon .  Just make a girls day of it =)

Post # 6
2704 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

I agree with PPs about not “promoting” her.  I think it would make your Maid/Matron of Honor feel bad that she could help with stuff.  If you haven’t already, I would give her an extra gift and write her a very nice thank you.  I’m guessing you’ll give a little thank you speech during the wedding so it might be nice to include her there.  But I wouldn’t do a special toast just for her.


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