Post # 47

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Busy bee
@mixtapehearts: Oh no worries I totally didnt get it that way. I Graduated highschool early, I did prelaw and law at Ivy and my MBA I did it at Mcgill In Canada…I hated it.
Some People here at the beehive love picking fights. I am not one of them.
I have been trying to tell the OP to just get over it and be happy…and If you read all the private M I have been getting. Congratulations on your twins!!!! I am so Jealous! We are going to be TTC after this summer and my husband is dying for twins. And thanks for the curiosity.
Post # 48

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Busy bee
@kay01: THank you for defending me if you thought she was being…an “evil bee”.I didnt take it wrong at all. I just thought she was being curious…it is exactly the point I have been trying to make with OP to just…let it slide. 🙂
Post # 49

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Busy bee
@MrsNewDay: The choice of staying at home or working you do have it…because now you can work vote and go to school….. That is the choice I was talking about.
🙂
Post # 50

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Buzzing Beekeeper
Hang out with smarter people. Or at the very least, try to find some who aren’t sexist.
Post # 51

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Sugar bee
@bbfyso: Oh gotcha. I just know that when I used to discuss this with others, they would assume all women had a choice between housewiving and working, and that’s not the case at all for many women. Yes, we can vote, work, and go to school now. Go sisterhood! 🙂
Post # 52

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Blushing bee
When someone says med school, I assume medical school, not nursing! But I see the same thing all the time. Fiance is a vet student, whenever people find out he is in vet school, they ask if it is a 2 year program / trade school. Sigh.
Post # 53

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Bumble bee
I would assume you were in medical school to be a doctor, but people can be morons. It totally goes both ways, too. One of my closest guy friends is a nurse and he still gets the whole “But, you’re a guy?” thing.
Post # 54

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Sugar bee
@beachbride1216: I came here JUST to say exactly what you just said. People (even people who knew me) would say “so what are you, a paralegal?” Uhhh, check the wall, that’s a BAR license. I (still) have all kinds of theories why it was so difficult for people to look at me and perceive that I was an attorney. There are many, many female attorneys and for my law school every class for the past 10 years or so has had more women than men. However, when I say I own an event management company or I’m a professional spirits taster (both of which are also true) people never bat an eyelash. Shrugs.
Post # 55

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Sugar bee
I guess I’m just not really clear on why you are letting the opinions of people who are obviously ignorant/sexist bother you.
Post # 56

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Helper bee
Too many responses to reply to individually but I am glad I’m not the only one who gets annoyed. And I totally agree with people who say it goes both ways, especially our society’s fears of letting men around children – preschool teachers, nanies, etc..
I wish somebody would turn to my Fiance and go, so will you be a househusband or Stay-At-Home Dad.
And for the people who ask why it bothers me, usually its in situations where I am stuck… cruise dinners, wedding dinners, etc.. where I can’t just get up and go and they continue to go on with their insane ramblings. And it happens so often that there must some underlying reason for it even though there as many women in college and graduate school.
Post # 57

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Helper bee
I’m a physician assistant, 26 years old and I look about 18. I get called nurse, tech, PA student, med student, resident etc etc… never PA. Oh well.
Post # 58

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Sugar Beekeeper