(Closed) At the risk of sounding like a 15 year old, do you think he likes me?

posted 7 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
1235 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

@ladyluckystars: I would say that he definately likes you! My Fiance didn’t kiss me on our first date either even though we both had a great time. He didn’t kiss me on the 2nd date either so I went in and kissed him! (He now denies this ๐Ÿ˜‰ )  Some guys are more nervous OR even respectful about kissing on first dates. Don’t lose hope! He texted you after seeing you…Id say he was SUPER interested! 

Post # 4
858 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

Too cute!

I think he is definitely interested. Good luck and have fun!

Post # 5
1150 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

No. You’re not crazy you’re just dating!

Post # 6
4804 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

I would definitely say he likes you.  He’s probably just trying to be a gentleman! 

Post # 7
1729 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

My SO didn’t kiss me on the first date, either. Or the second. He’s a complete gentleman and we hit it off fantastically.

I don’t think you have anything to worry about! Good luck!

Post # 8
658 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

I think he likes you but was being a gentleman. Good Luck!

Post # 10
891 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2010

oh my god are you being serious?  you really think he doesn’t like you?  trust me, you’ll know when a guy doesn’t like you…because he won’t call or text you.

this guy really enjoyed your date and wants to do things right (i.e. not come on too strong and scare you away).  let it happen naturally and let the suspsense of the first kiss build up. it’s fun.


ps- i met my husband on match.com  yea we kissed the first night but that’s because i just asked him if he would like to kiss at the end of the night. i had a few drinks in me and thought, ‘screw it’.  but i decided to ask politely rather than attack him like a desperate drunk girl.

he loved it that i asked and said it was the funniest thing a girl has ever asked him on a date. “do you want to make out?”  haha


Post # 11
5985 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2010

@ladyluckystars: he totally likes you. He is just a gentleman. Darling Husband and I dated for over a month before he finally kissed me ๐Ÿ˜‰ It took me just asking him if he liked me for me to find out. After a few weeks of dating and no kissing I thought maybe we were just hanging out as friends so I needed clarification ๐Ÿ™‚ It was SOOO WORTH THE WAIT! Maybe this guy will be worth it too! good luck honey!

Post # 12
27 posts

He likes you and was just being a gentleman.  My SO and I didn’t kiss until our third date!  That was five years ago..

Post # 14
963 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

Maybe he wants to be the “date initiator?”  Either way, I wouldn’t message him again.  Let him chase you a bit.

Post # 15
929 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2011

Oh my god so exciting….as much as dating sucks you do get to missing the unknown a bit when you know where your next 10000 kisses, i love you’s, and everything elses are coming from!!!

I would say he’s totally interested but trying not to jump the gun.  He probably doesn’t want to seem too interested if he’s not sure of your level of interest.  Just do yourself a favour and DON’T watch the “He’s just not that into you” Sex and the City episode – i watched that show obsessively when i started out with my fiance and started finding signals or lack of signals in EVERYTHING!! It got to driving me crazy and it was all in my head!

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