(Closed) At this point…I just want to get to the wedding..Vent along if you want!!!!

posted 5 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
Member
377 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

@Goinganon:  I feel ya!! The wedding is 6 weeks away and its just a drama fest!! Wouldnt mind if it was a big wedding but its tiny, not even got a bridal party or best man etc. Parents keep butting in trying to persuade us to do this or that and FI’s sister has said shes not coming to the wedding because she hates her mum, so Future Mother-In-Law is getting on at us to get his sister to come so they can make up even though they havnt spoken in 7 years!! Its all a mess and i just want it to end so we can get on with our lives!!

Post # 4
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1326 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

I am pretty happy that I don’t have to deal with all the drama. Our problem is that we have barely planned anything and the wedding is in late July. In the area where we’re getting married, there are very few options and they’re all kind of crappy and expensive.

I’m over it, too!!

Post # 5
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350 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

I 100% feel you!  the drama that has happened (we also had a long engagement–and are 5 weeks to our wedding now) is just RIDICULOUS!

I too do not understand how people can’t figure out that YES, you will have to put money out for wedding stuff.  I REALLY don’t expect much from people, and my bachelorette party is starting at a pub, heading to 3 different bars after that….you can choose to spend money or not spend money…..and there are people who are having issues cause they don’t have money for it :S

Then there’s my FI’s sister…..she lives in a big expensive house, spent THOUSANDS going to florida and disney world with her kids (they went last year as well) and is pleading poverty right now….I DO believe that YES, they are having money issues (with over spending….on the trip to florida she bought a TONNE of coach purses as well)….BUT, I found it bizarre that she made a HUGE deal about buying us a GREAT gift for our wedding shower and we got a $40 gift card from her…again, I DO NOT EXPECT ANYTHING from people, but find it odd that someone would make such a HUGE deal about buying a great gift and then gave us that….and then her kids are in the wedding and she balked at having to get them outfits for it….I just bought them shirts for it and it cost $30 for both….REALLY???

 

So I get you….I totally get you…I’m really over the wedding already….but, I’m sure all of our days are going to be AMAZING!  Just hang in there!

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