(Closed) Attention all waiting bees. Does your SO know…..

posted 9 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
1416 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

@Batsygirl:  hahaha thats really funny how he ‘found out’ your on here haha

  Mine caught me in a similar way. I had tunnel vision to the computer and he came behind me and was reading what I was reading, I felt a sneeze coming along..turned to the side..sneezed and he said “bless you” I almost dropped dead.

  Then he said..” wait they were married and he was STILL CHEATING on her”  jerk was behind me for a while haha

  I wanted to kill him lol . He cant say anything about my (as he calls it) wedding forum because he has a motorcycle forum haha

Post # 4
4462 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: February 2012

@Batsygirl:  Haha did he say anything else? 

Post # 5
79 posts
Worker bee

Yep, he knows. I told him just yesterday because there were some funny stories and crazy wedding dress photos that I wanted to share with him.

He liked that I was on here, even though I was reluctant to tell him. I thought he’d see it as pushing the issue. He thought he was more into the idea of us getting married than I was!

Which only shows how thick he can be sometimes, lol, because a fortnight ago, I spent about three hours showing him engagement rings that I like on the internet. Duh!

Post # 7
3665 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2015

Oh yeah, he’s known for a while. He doesn’t mind. Sometimes I share interesting stories or polls with him, lol.

Post # 9
789 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

I think I’m missing something…I thought you were saying you were watching porn on your laptop and your guy found it but I re-read and I think you’re talking about  being on this (wedding bee) site. Why would this site be a secret? Maybe I’m just having an extra supid moment…?

Post # 10
214 posts
Helper bee

Ahahahahaha, absolutely NOT.

There was a point (way super early on) that we were seriously discussing marriage and he knew I had an account on TheKnot (I even gave him the login info!) but we came to our senses and realized that getting engaged at three months and announcing at six and getting married at 12 was not a good plan for college students and that we were getting WAY ahead of ourselves o.O

So here we are at 19 months, talks of marriage put mostly to the side.  He knows I go on Pinterest and look at wedding stuff all the time.  Does he know I have a whole board dedicated?  Nope.  Does he know I still frequent TheKnot? Nope.  Does he know what the hell WeddingBee is or that I’m on it?  Not even a little.

Post # 12
383 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

When my SO fake-proposed to me about a month ago, I vented on here.  After I cooled off, I talked to SO about it and he said “I know I can’t be the only guy that has done that to his girlfriend,” and I responded “Oh, you’re not.  I posted kinda anonymously on this site, and a bunch of other women told me stories about their SO’s doing similar.”  He laughed and moved on…  He knows I have a wedding board on Pinterest and we both know a proposal is coming soon, so even if he knew how often I actually am on here I know it wouldn’t bother him (:

Post # 14
383 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

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@Batsygirl:  My SO used to shake his head if he’d walk in on me on Pinterest and he’d be like “Again?”  but now I’ve caught him on it a few times (:

Post # 15
1074 posts
Bumble bee

My SO is aware of the bee and that I’m a poster, but he doesn’t really care. At first it took him by surprise but now that he’s used to it he just thinks it’s a procrastination tool, which he’s 100% right about. 🙂

Post # 16
2252 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

My Fiance knows I’m on the site and has no issues even after the time I came on here to vent about him. lol. He doesn’t go on, but he does enjoy the random threads I read to him every now and then.

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