(Closed) Attention all waiting bees. Does your SO know…..

posted 9 years ago in Waiting
Post # 47
1115 posts
Bumble bee

Yup. He actually found the site and introduced it to me. 

Post # 48
597 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: February 2013

Oh ladies, you crack me up!

My love does know, I even told him my screen name so he can see what I post if he wants to. I doubt he realizes its predominatly wedding stuff though, though granted I am on the Not Wedding Related section more often than not. 


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@Alaric2012:  Hahah! I wish! 🙂 

Post # 49
486 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2016

When I had the talk with him yesterday I kept saying “I’ve been reading” and “I heard people say…” all the while thinking about this site and Yahoo answers lol (where I first started lurking but now basically switched entirely here lol – you guys are much friendlier lol)

He said, “you’ve been reading a lot about this stuff…” And I just said that it’s been on my mind. I think at this point it would unnecessarily freak him out if he knew all the posts i’ve been reading. But he also knows that it’s hard for me to get something out of my head and that I procrastinate online. So I’m sure he’ll figure out eventually what I’m doing. 

But for now, even though we don’t live together, I still go incognito online when I check this site lol 

Post # 50
3418 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2014 - Manhattan Church Rec Center

He caught me and we had a discussion that led to him telling me it will happen some time this year….which is what i needed to hear

Post # 51
2949 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2015

I hid this site from him to begin with but I felt guilty soon after because we had promised to each other that we wouldn’t keep secrets. So I told him and explained that it was a site where I can indulge in my engagement and wedding neuroses and vent any waiting anxiety I might have which he understood and is fine with. He’s even read some of the threads on here and offered his opinions when I’m typing up my comments.

Post # 52
2143 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2015

Mine knows 🙂 my waiting game is a matter of finances right now, but talk all about / do minor planning together already! 

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