(Closed) Aunt and cousins not coming to the wedding :(

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
163 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

@Beckster329:  I’m sorry 🙁 If it makes you feel any better, you know they care about you. I would think that the cousin in college would be able to get out of one weekend for a wedding, though. Plus, your aunt could always change her mind and grin and bear it for your sake. I would think that if she was in your life up until you turned 25, it would be crappy to skip out on your wedding. I get that things are rough with your uncle, but she was clearly an important person in your life. Maybe you could assure her that you will seat her away from him? 

Half of my family isn’t coming because they just don’t care about me, and haven’t spoken to me since I was 10 (Not calling for a pity party, it doesn’t hurt that bad since… I haven’t really known them since I was 10). I’d really rather just know beforehand that they couldn’t/wouldn’t come so I wouldn’t be half-anticipating that they would actually show up. So, I guess I’m saying, if there’s a bright side to your situation, you have a little bit of preparation just in case they don’t come, and you understand the reasons behind it. 

I still hope that your aunt changes her mind!

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