(Closed) Aunt stole my engagement…angry rip rant

posted 9 years ago in Emotional
Post # 153
1937 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

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@TexasSpringBride:  Right, I forget that little tidbit… but it still seems like EXTREME overkill, first of all to be mad at someone so much for voting differently than them and second of all to take it to the extent of lying to her family and friends. If its not a psychotic break, she is STILL not stable in my mind, and BORED. ๐Ÿ™‚ She must be VERY VERY bored to but this much effort into being mad at you! Haha. 

In any case it SUCKS having ANYTHING damper wedding excitement. Maybe focus on your other side of the family or your FI’s family for a little while! Hopefully she will cut it out once she realizes you are over her. 

Post # 155
6352 posts
Bee Keeper

You’re showing your aunt that she is successfully getting under your skin, which was her goal, IMO.

Post # 156
4322 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: January 1992

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@google:  HA! Can you imagine poo nuggets hanging from that ass…. eww… I just grossed myself out.

Post # 157
7172 posts
Busy Beekeeper

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@TexasSpringBride:  I’m glad you blocked her.  Do NOT respond to her texts.  I hope she leaves you alone.  ๐Ÿ™

Post # 159
698 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

holy crazy lady batman! i have no words. none.

I’m sorry you’re going through this!

Post # 160
6352 posts
Bee Keeper

I don’t reward children for bad behavior. I “can’t see or hear” a child who is tantruming (except to remove them from a public place if that were to occur… but only out of consideration for the other people there). I don’t give them the attention they want when they aren’t going about it the right way. So, kids don’t end up throwing tantrums with me very often. Know what I’m saying?

Post # 161
328 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: March 2013

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@joya_aspera:  I completely agree with you.

Post # 162
1474 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2011

Can I just say this thread is golden? Seriously. I nominate it for “Best of the Bee”, even though that doesn’t exist… but it should, for threads like this.

And seriously… someone please inform Mr. Richardson that he is engaged to be married to a cuckoo bird in Florida. He will probably be extremely interested to hear the news.

Post # 163
272 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2015

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@TexasSpringBride:  Girl, we have the same crazy family. I have an aunt that posts DAILY updates multiple times a day about evil liberals, socialists, muslims, gays, abortion etc. I never minded a debate on the issues, but all she does is post these inflammatory chain emails, fetus pics, and so on. I recently had a falling out with her daughter because she posted a racist status post. I’ve cut her out of my life for good. Assuming she isn’t having a complete break with reality and is just doing this because of the overwhelming hate in her heart, I think you ought to give it to her good on FB. Call her out, then delete her FOREVER and block her. You DONT need family like that in your life. I’m really sorry about your Uncle larry (I have an uncle Larry too (are you sure we’re not related??) I think it’s very cruel that she would lie to him and confuse him like this. It’s just fucking evil.

If it wasn’t so f***ed up, it would be funny. I read your first post with my Fiance and we both busted out laughing because WHO THE HELL DOES THIS? I really have no words…

Post # 164
38 posts
  • Wedding: May 2013

@TexasSpringBride:  I’m so sorry she did that.  She sounds like a CLASSIC, textbook Borderline Personality Disorder.  The whole “my way or the highway” with the Muslim Socialist comment (I would have been irate!) as well as the attention-seeking behavior, to the point of massive deceit and the possiblity of losing credibility.  Does she  have a history of freaking out over little things?  Try to put the attention back on her when her children have achievements? Exacerbate minor details?  I worked many years in mental health and for me, these clients were the most difficult to work with.

She needs psychiatric help but in the meantime, try to basically get your power back…essentially, ignore her and her histrionics.  Celebrate your engagement publicly and IGNORE her ๐Ÿ™‚ Be happy for this beautiful time in your life, and pity her for being so sick that she pulls such a ridiculous stunt.  And, congrats on your engagement!! ๐Ÿ™‚

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