- 9 years ago
- Wedding: January 2013
In any case it SUCKS having ANYTHING damper wedding excitement. Maybe focus on your other side of the family or your FI’s family for a little while! Hopefully she will cut it out once she realizes you are over her.
She just text me wondering why I deleted her. I posted on my facebook about being disappointed that people would lie about something so joyous and then post a fake photo. She text that she keeps things private until she knows for sure and I dont know anything about her fiance. The photo is a fake. The picture of the man she is claiming is her fiance is a well know landscape architect, and has a wife and children in Boston. I think she thinks because she chose a pic out of Boston that no one would know it was a fake.
You have to understand my aunt. She makes things up quite often. Last year she kept talking about dating this other guy except it wasnt real, she was trying to make another guy jealous.
You’re showing your aunt that she is successfully getting under your skin, which was her goal, IMO.
Actually I kept my mouth shut til just a little bit ago. My uncle Larry who has parkinsons disease congratulated her on the wedding and she told him, “I will let you know when it is so you can be there to see me walk down the aisle. Maybe come a few months early for a family get together.
My uncle larry is in the advanced stages of parkinsons disease. He lost his own son not long ago in Afghanistan. It made his condition worse. Its shameful that she is faking this and then asking members of the family who arent capable of traveling to come for a wedding that isnt real.
Then I got angry and called her on it. She is holding to her story that the photo is real. She is still accepting congrats, except she isnt just hurting herself. She wants my uncle to leave his home in Arizona to come all the way to Miami to see her get married.
Its shameful, not only that she brow beats people with her opinion. Her own children dont have anything to do with her, except one and she cant even have a relationship because her mother interferes to the point that the police have been involved.
Why should I keep going along with everyone and just letting her behavior slide. Do we let children who lie slide? Do we let people who hurt people get away with it?
holy crazy lady batman! i have no words. none.
I’m sorry you’re going through this!
I don’t reward children for bad behavior. I “can’t see or hear” a child who is tantruming (except to remove them from a public place if that were to occur… but only out of consideration for the other people there). I don’t give them the attention they want when they aren’t going about it the right way. So, kids don’t end up throwing tantrums with me very often. Know what I’m saying?
Can I just say this thread is golden? Seriously. I nominate it for “Best of the Bee”, even though that doesn’t exist… but it should, for threads like this.
And seriously… someone please inform Mr. Richardson that he is engaged to be married to a cuckoo bird in Florida. He will probably be extremely interested to hear the news.
If it wasn’t so f***ed up, it would be funny. I read your first post with my Fiance and we both busted out laughing because WHO THE HELL DOES THIS? I really have no words…
@TexasSpringBride: I’m so sorry she did that. She sounds like a CLASSIC, textbook Borderline Personality Disorder. The whole “my way or the highway” with the Muslim Socialist comment (I would have been irate!) as well as the attention-seeking behavior, to the point of massive deceit and the possiblity of losing credibility. Does she have a history of freaking out over little things? Try to put the attention back on her when her children have achievements? Exacerbate minor details? I worked many years in mental health and for me, these clients were the most difficult to work with.
She needs psychiatric help but in the meantime, try to basically get your power back…essentially, ignore her and her histrionics. Celebrate your engagement publicly and IGNORE her 🙂 Be happy for this beautiful time in your life, and pity her for being so sick that she pulls such a ridiculous stunt. And, congrats on your engagement!! 🙂
I know and you know I probably wouldnt have called her out if she hadnt said anything to Uncle Larry, but he has had a rough year. His son was awarded a bronze star posthumously. His parkinsons is worse. He cant even drive anymore. He has to have someone do simple things for him. I think that was just my last straw. I could handle all the other stuff, I didnt mind the engagement, since its not even real, but to be speaking to our elders about coming months before a wedding is suppose to take place, is ridiculous.
Why would you do something so cruel to someone who has had a terrible year as well as failing health.
I have blocked her. I am not responding to the text. She had the nerve to call me childish when she started all of this by creating a fake engagement because she is mad at me. Seriously??? Im childish for calling you out on a lie?
Sounds like my aunt. She does the same thing on facebook. Makes racist comments, post pics of aborted fetuses. Lord last week she told me a vote for Obama was a vote for gangbangers in the white house.
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