Aunt/Uncle destroying photos on photogs FB page :(

posted 3 years ago in Emotional
Post # 2
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2016

She can just delete thier comments and block them. She doesn’t need to delete the post.

Post # 3
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: March 2017 - Nepal

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taytay41 :  WOW, I’m sorry, that is really shitty. Can she delete their comments and block them from her page? 

On a side note, I would love to see these photos!

Post # 4
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2017

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taytay41 :  my advice? Choose 2 close and assertive friends to be on crazy aunt and uncle watch at your wedding nd prepared to escort them back out if they show up uninvited, unfortunately. I’ve been gong-show-patrol at a friend’s wedding before, I’m sure someone will be willing to do it, especially if they’e already shown the world that your concerns are not unfounded.

Post # 5
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Blushing bee

What a horrible situation. It sounds like you’ve done the right thing by cutting your aunt and uncle out of your life, and they continue to prove it was the right thing.

I think you just apologize to your friend. If she wants to leave the page up she could delete the current post, block them, and then re-post. However, they sound crazy enough that they might create other profiles and keep doing this.

You really shouldn’t feel badly. You can’t control your family. I would just apologize and work with her to find a solution. If she is really a friend she will feel badly you are in the position, not be sad that the she can’t post 3 pictures for her business.

Post # 7
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

Wow, could they be more desperate to try and bring you down? That’s pathetic. Consider the source here. These are two huge, dedicated assholes. Those opinions hold no weight. Block delete forget and go on living a good life.

Post # 8
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2013

your friend should block them so they can’t comment on her photos.  how did they find them anyway?  how did they know what photographer you used?

i am assuming you were tagged in the photos. but if you are not friends with your aunt/uncle, they wouldn’t pop up on their page. i’m still baffled how they found them.

Post # 10
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2012

As your photographer to delete the comments and block them from the page.

Post # 11
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2016

She can block them from her page and delete the comments. No biggie. I’m sorry though that it happened.

Post # 12
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Bee Keeper

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taytay41 :  Have her delete the comments and block the people.  She can then keep it up.

Post # 13
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2015

I’m sorry these jerks are doing this, bee. But the truth is they look like total losers, no one who’s worth a thought will give their accusations any weight because who behaves like this.

why did you delete your comment? You have nothing to be afraid of. They’re trying to intimidate you because you’re not letting their nastiness control you. 

Hopefully the photog can block them when she sees what’s going on but really, they’re making themselves look like a$$holes. 

Post # 14
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2016

don’t worry about it. Most businesses that have a web presence nowaday deal with the occasional troll. Deleting comments and blocking trolls is part of the upkeep necessary for a web presence.

Im sorry your family is so terrible

Post # 15
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: April 2017 - Valleybrook Country Club

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taytay41 :  Wow. Firstly, I am so sorry you are experiencing this! What an awful way for them to express their feelings. The photographer, should be able to delete all of the comments and block them from seeing the page. Perhaps you should put them on your blocked list too.

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