(Closed) Away from SO and last night…

posted 6 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2018

I always sleep better with SO around. When he relocated for work (i join him in a couple of weeks) I didn’t sleep much for weeks.  I was always exhausted. And I’m still not getting a great nights sleep months later.

Post # 4
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Buzzing bee

I always sleep great when I’m traveling or Darling Husband is away. I get a much better night’s sleep when I’m alone. 

Post # 5
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

I’m the opposite! I sleep like a baby when he’s gone! I was up early bright eyed and bushy tailed this morning! My SO is on his Bachelor Party Trip. Ahhh…sleep for the next few days should be devine!

Post # 6
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2012

@jpalm13:   It happens to me, I can’t sleep well at all without him there.  The last time he went out of town I planned things to keep my mind occupied in bed until I could finally fall asleep (movies on Netflix, a book, and some wedding mags).  Took two glasses of wine, too.

Maybe you can get a power nap during your lunch hour, I have been known to do that!

Post # 8
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2012

@jpalm13:  Fiance and I both have this problem.  I work overnights so there’s times he’ll text me in the middle of the night asking me to come home because he can’t sleep without me.

Post # 9
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: January 1992

@jpalm13:  This happens to me too. I hate sleeping without my husband in the bed. 

In an aside, I misread your post as, “I POOPED at work today!” and wondered what that had to do with your poor sleep. 🙂 Had to re-read it!

Post # 11
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Blushing bee

I hate sleeping without him! Even when we are fighting I will cuddle him and sleep right next to him but then wake up in the morning grumpy again. He’s my big cuddley body pillow!

Post # 12
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

@baileyryan12:  I am with you, even when we argue I want him next to me.  If he is working late or out of town for work I mabye sleep a few hours here and there. 

On the night before the wedding, I didnt sleep a wink because first he was not next to me and second I as so excited.  

I hope that I never have to sleep wiithout him, he is my sleeping aid. 🙂 

Post # 13
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

I need a little adjustment period. Fiance travels about once every other month for work, and is gone for 7-10 days at a time. The first couple days, I sleep like sh*t, but then I sleep like a rock. Then he comes back, and again, I can’t sleep. After a while, I get used to his heater-like body and muttering in his sleep Smile

Post # 14
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: February 2014

We’ve only been together a few months, but already I’m so used to having him there. The few nights we haven’t spent together have been miserable. Guess I’m just too used to having him for my pillow. But he says the same thing, when I’m not there he can’t sleep either.

Post # 15
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Worker bee

I sleep terribly when we are apart. Hate it, hate it. Since his job sent him up to SLC, it’s been terrible (except this week, because I am here in SLC right now), hence why we are house hunting. He’s convinced me to go ahead and move to the land of butt-deep winter snow (egads!). Small trade if it means being next to him. 

Post # 16
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: December 2011

Darling Husband was gone for 2 nights on a business trip a couple of weeks ago.  Neither of us got any sleep.

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