Post # 1
It started off with finding out that my BFF got engaged this weekend after 6 years and I DIDN’T get jealous! It would have been easy to do because she’s been with her now-FI for exactly 1 month longer than my SO and we’ve been “relationship twins” in everything. But I didn’t get jealous and I’m honestly soo happy for her!
Thennnnn: I threw the entire V-day challenge out the window and squealed about marriage/living together any chance I got. I apologized profusely for freaking out excited about marriage and he said it was ok and that I could (he secretly loves it, I can tell). Also, he didn’t change the channel when Say Yes to the Dress came on (but did give me the remote).
The biggies: I brought up marriage and he said I shouldn’t expect anything too soon because he’s so unhappy (none of his unhappiness has anything to do with me and all should be resolved in a couple months). He said something along the lines of it’s good that he wants to wait until things are happy so he’s not covering up & avoiding his crappy situation with an engagement! How sweet is that!?!?
Then the sweetest thing, I said that I’m ok with a quartz ring that we upgrade to a diamond after 5 years of marriage and he said that would be nice and it would be a metaphor for how our relationship progresses! Awwww!!!
I am soooo freaking happy and excited y’all!!
Post # 3
Sounds like a GREAT waiting weekend. And congrats to your bff engagement, since she’s your relationship twin your’s can’t be too far behind.
Post # 4
very nice- happy for you =)