- 7 years ago
- Wedding: June 2012
So I know I don’t get a say on his groomsmen but I’m having an interesting issue. I dated a guy seriously for over 3 years. We broke up, amicably, and also go to the same university. I met Fiance at said university and, ironically, he has become GREAT buddies with my ex. So much so, Fiance wants ex to be a groomsmen. Now, I am adult enough to be friends with an ex, there is no reason we shouldn’t be. I’m happy even that Fiance is friends with ex too, he was a nice guy we just weren’t meant to be. But to me it is EXTREMELY awkward to have him be a groomsmen. The idea of all the bachelor party stuff, him being IN my wedding… just weird to me. So I don’t know what to do, what to say to Fiance, anything. I realize he totally in charge of who he wants to stand up with him, his best friends, but still….ahh. Sorry I just needed to get this out.