- 6 years ago
- Wedding: October 2012
Okay, so this is a little embarrassing.
I had completely ruled out wearing my Ella Rosa BE123, but just for a final “confirmation” that I am going to sell it, I sent Fiance photos of several dresses, to get his general opinion on styles, etc.
He didn’t know that one of the photos was of the dress, and his comments were: “Meh, nothing special” and “I hate the way that it’s so straight and has no shape past the hips.”
It sucked, but at least it gave me the “closure” I needed to know that I can sell the dress now and move on. (I’ve been struggling with dress shopping and hating it now that I feel totally confused about what I like and what looks good on me.)
Once I filled Fiance in on the whole thing, he told me not to sell the dress yet, to let him see it in person at least (nothing to lose since mind was made up to sell.) He’s five hours away right now and I got impatient, so I sent him a video from when I picked up the dress (Uploaded to Photobucket here.)
(Don’t mind the awkwardness and the nerdy way too big flower in my hair!!)
So, Fiance watches the video, then sends me a text saying: “You look beautiful. Keep it!”
He says it looks totally different in the video/when it moves than when it is still. Also says the fit looks right (I keep thinking it’s too fitted in the bum and too mermaid-y).
SOOO. Now I don’t know what to do. Keep looking at dresses? Stop and keep this one, even though Fiance has seen it now?
I still have my reservations about the fit and shape on me, but feel exhausted by this whole process and almost just want to have it over with.
What would you do??