- 8 years ago
- Wedding: September 2010
So I have a bit of an awkward situation, and I just want to vent about it. Back in July when my man and I got engaged I was really good friends with a coworker. She is a super enthusiastic, bubbly and sweet girl and we hung out a lot for a couple months. Unfortunately, she also has another side, and began to have extreme emotional meltdowns a couple months later. She was always dragging me into her drama, unnecessarily, and I eventually got tired of it. I tried to keep the friendship going for awhile, but was really drained and also put off by some things she did. Unfortunately, I sent out save the dates before any of this happened. About a month ago she asked me (on FACEBOOK) if she was still invited to the wedding. I of course was planning to invite her, since I’d sent a STD, and I told her this. She said “oh good, because we haven’t hung out in FOREVER, so I wasn’t sure.” I didn’t really think much of it (other than that it was a little weird, because we are truly no longer friends so I don’t know why she’d even want to come). Then this past weekend I got a text from her telling me that she bought tickets to come to my wedding! I don’t understand, we never speak to each other, when we are in the same room she ignores me, but she wants to spend the little money she has as a college student and come to my wedding? I don’t particularly mind, I was always going to invite her (I just didn’t think she’d come!) I’m hoping she just wants to come support me as a friend, but I can’t help worrying that she’ll bring her ever-present drama to the wedding and try and drag me into it again!?!
Did anyone have a situation like this – someone who was a friend when you sent the STD, but you later had a falling out? Any of them still decide to come?