(Closed) Awkward situation…

posted 4 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
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8704 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2013

I would find out her address and send her a thank you card like your other guests. I definitely wouldnt do the custom painting thing bc it would be awkward since she no longer dates your BIL. 

Post # 5
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Bumble Beekeeper

As the +1 guest of your BIL, she really didn’t have to give you a gift, but it was generous that she did.  

Etiquette holds that thank yous are for gifts actually received, so I would just write her a note thanking her for the gift card and for her generosity. I wouldn’t follow through to set up the appointment, but if she pursues it with you I’d tell her it is absolutely not necessary.  

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