(Closed) awkwardness for wedding party…

posted 8 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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2641 posts
Sugar bee

 I think the best thing would be to check with your potential BMs to see how they’d feel, and if they think they could handle being in the Bridal Party with the other two.  That way if they ultimately feel like they should decline, at least they know, you were wanting them to be in the Bridal Party.

Post # 4
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113 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

I say you ask everyone you want to ask and expect them to act as mature adults and be respectful of one another. If you mean that much to these people they will do anything they can to make your day wonderful. Maybe when you are asking them to be BMs mention that you know how amazing and mature they are and that is why you didn’t hesitate asking them to be BMs given the situation, maybe it’ll sent a precedent from the beginning.

IF they do go the drama route, tell them how disappointed you are that they didn’t respect you enough to not cause drama considering it will all be in preparation for the happiest day of your life. Usually if you tell someone you are disappointed it gets the message across and they shape up. Although, I could see how that would cause stress on you.

I wish the best for you, I hope it all turns out well!

Post # 5
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837 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

Ask who you want.  Tell them who else is in the wedding.  If they have a problem with it, they’ll let you know I’m sure, then you can politely say, “I’m sorry you feel you can’t be in the wedding because they so-and-so will be there.”

Post # 6
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965 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

I think you should be talking to them. Explain how you feel about them all and maybe this can be a time to build some bridges.

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