(Closed) B list RSVP conundrum

posted 7 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
Hostess
18644 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

I think they want it more for announcement purposes than going to the wedding so I don’t think they would really notice.

Post # 4
Member
10367 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2010

If you already know they can’t come, why does it matter when you send it?

Post # 6
Member
440 posts
Helper bee

We had this backfire with my daughter’s wedding. Had a handful of out of town relatives that said “we can’t attend but please send the invite anyway”. Well, we got 2 rsvp’s back that said “we have changed plans and can come after all” and another rsvp back that said “so excited…I thought the wedding was the weekend BEFORE, we’re free the weekend of the wedding…..this added 6 people to a guest list that was already busting at the seams.

Just to be safe, put them on the B list.

The topic ‘B list RSVP conundrum’ is closed to new replies.

Find Amazing Vendors