(Closed) Baby but no ring???

posted 4 years ago in Waiting
Post # 31
370 posts
Helper bee

Leave. Now. 

Post # 32
1240 posts
Bumble bee

Aside from not being engaged it sounds like your relationship isn’t the healthiest anyway. At this point it seems like a blessing that you aren’t legally tied to this man. 

Post # 33
234 posts
Helper bee

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notwaitingforever :  I hate to say this, but the situation is definitely partially your fault.

You let him get comfortable in the relationship. You let him get away with empty promises beforehand, you got pregnant, and you thought things would change. Having a baby probably gives him LESS of a reason to want to propose- he’s locked down, in his mind, and has no reason to spend money on a ring/wedding. Because you didn’t pursue commitment initially, there’s no reason a baby would make this man want to commit. It should have been a serious discussion/walk time before a baby was involved.

Post # 34
625 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2018

He’s gaslighting you with the cheating.

You’ve said several times that you think he’s lying. Why on earth would you want to commit for a lifetime to someone you believe lies on a regular basis? Do you think that is normal? 

He showed no interest in your child’s birth yet you still want to marry this loser? 

You really need to take a look at yourself in the mirror and ask why your standards ar so low. Dump this guy.

Post # 36
4296 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: December 2016

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Tiffenschmee :  I would say, based upon OPs post count of 3, that they will not be replying. Please don’t resurrect the zombie threads. Thanks. 

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