(Closed) Baby Fever

posted 7 years ago in Babies
Post # 3
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1550 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

I went through a time when I felt like this as well. My husband and I sort of had different timelines, I felt like I was ready right away, but he wanted to wait a year or two.

The advice I got on here was that with a baby, compromising is not really something you should do. A baby is SUCH a huge step and a huge change in a relationship, you should really wait until both parties are ready.

You are still so young, you have a lot of time ahead of you! I think you should wait until your hubby feels ready too. As soon as he does feel ready, you guys should totally go for it! No problem in having babies young!

Why don’t you start preparing yourself now? Looking for doctors, taking prenatals, etc. That way when you guys are ready, you can start right away and won’t have much to do to prepare!

Post # 4
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3255 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

I am also very young like you and sometimes have baby fever, but if your Darling Husband isn’t ready, then you aren’t ready as a couple. I know other young married couples who have had babies before one of the two of them was truly ready, and they just are NOT happy. You both need to be on the same page with this before TTC. I like PP’s advice; start doing some research and getting yourself prepared for when you guys are ready, but realize that you are young and still have plenty of time to take that huge step. Enjoy your time together as a childless couple. 🙂

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