- 8 years ago
- Wedding: July 2012
Hi Bees! I need to get some outsiders perspective right now please. 🙂
DH and I have been married now for a couple months, and I never in a million years thought I’d be struck so soon by baby fever. People kept telling me it would probably happen, but I always said “No way, we won’t be TTC for at least a few years!” Ah so why am I here today??
I can’t get babies out of my head! DH and I discussed TTC this weekend, and we still have not come to a decision. DH is 25 and I am 23. He started his career last year. I am currently working, and I have one college degree right now – but will be starting another program in January 2013. The program will be two years. I just cannot imagine waiting to have a baby for another few years.
I just keep thinking, “Maybe I could just finish school while pregnant/ having a child..” But I see many people say that, and then they don’t finish school. (Not all, but some.)
School is very important to me, and I just don’t know what to do at this time.
I’ve always wanted to be a young parent (my parents were 19 when they had me) so I was raised with young parents and just loved it.
But, really – what would you do in my situation? Should we put it in God’s hands.. or purposely wait?
I know this decision is entirely up to DH and I, however, I would just like to get some different perspectives.
Thanks bees 🙂