(Closed) baby fever is in full force!

posted 7 years ago in Babies
Post # 3
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3257 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

You’re not alone- seriously!

I’m 23 and SO is 25; you guys have been married not much longer than we have! We want a couple of years to ourselves to establish our finances and get settled before kids, but it is hard sometimes, especially now that some of my friends that are a little older than us are having babies. 

Just remind yourself of how expensive it would be right now and get your fill from other people’s kids- haha.

Post # 4
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32 posts
Newbee

Kids are very fun to play with. Perhaps now that you are married you’re realizing that it’s a reality that you will one day have children with your husband and the thought is so thrilling that a tiny part of you thinks now would be fun.

Anyway, stick to your plan. Enjoy your time alone with your husband for now because once the kids come it’s a whole other ball game. Yes, you can get a babysitter but at the end of the day you’re always responsible for them.

I’ve also been married 2+ months and when I see kids I think about how our kids would look or be like. But that’s not in the cards for us now, maybe in ~3 years. In the meantime I play with other people’s kids and enjoy the fact that I can leave when the not so pleasant moments occur (tantrums, diaper changes, etc.).

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