(Closed) Baby fever vs. Pregnancy Fever

posted 6 years ago in TTC
Post # 3
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Buzzing Beekeeper

I think a lot of women feel this way at some point or another. Especially since pregnant celebrities are always in the news looking amazing, and there is so much adorable baby stuff out there. I’ve developed a full on baby shopping addiction, and I’m loving every minute! Try to keep a realistic view though, it’s definitely not all glowing bumps and cute maternity clothes.

Post # 4
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

I’m the opposite…the whole pregnancy thing really scares me. I do know a lot of people who LOVE being pregnant though, and a friend who told me she can’t wait to experience pregnancy so I’m sure you’re not the only one.

Post # 5
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2010

Being pregnant is awful. Woman who say “I love being pregnant”, I think are lying LOL!!! 

I’m only kind of kidding. I think woman who have very easy pregnancies may feel this way, but when I talk with woman now who have children about how I don’t like being pregnant it’s amazing how many of them discuss how awful the whole thing was so openly, when before it was like a special secret that no one discusses. 

Post # 6
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Buzzing bee

I definitely have pregnancy fever. The thought of planning a nursery, picking names, taking bump pictures, clothes shopping, etc., all sounds awesome to me. The thought of having a living, breathing, can’t sustain without me human is a wholeeeeeeeee other ball game. The thought of that makes me feel like I’m having a panic attack!

Post # 7
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

I feel the same way! Well, I see cute babies and want one too =P but I keep thinking.. being pregnant seems so exciting, I want to be pregnant! And then I look at the bump love thread which makes me want to be pregnant even more! Although my friend at work just had a baby and was telling me some of the *not so glamorous* parts.. it helped ease the fever a bit =]

Post # 9
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2010

@Bubu82:  I think as woman we put a lot of pressure on each other when it comes to every aspect of parenting/motherhood. You want to be the best Mom out there and if you complain once about being overwhelmed or not loving every part of it, it is “the most rewarding job out there” as people say, then there’s something wrong with you. 

I think a lot of woman just fake it till you make it, even with Motherhood. Think about how many woman have postpartum depression now? Now being the operative word here. Did our Mother’s and Grandmother’s generation not suffer from this? Since it’s hormonal it would be difficult to imagine that something in this generations bodies have changed so much that all of sudden postpartum exists. Woman just hid it and didn’t talk about it, because there is shame around not being the happiest you’ve ever been now that you have a baby.

I’m a very honest person and always have been. When I talk about my struggles with pregnancy it’s amazing to watch so many of my friends open up and tell me how much they struggled with it as well. However, when they were pregnant they never mentioned it to me. I think I owe it to my friends who have not had a baby the truth. Yes, it’s amazing what the human body can do in producing a child, but along with that comes puking, constipation, exhaustion, sleeplessness, goo leaking from every orifice, hair growing all over your stomach and face, and the best part, peeing yourself.  Yes it’s amazing to feel the baby kick, but not at night when all you want to do is sleep and the baby is doing the riverdance. Yes I cry every time I hear his heartbeat, I also cry when I realize I’ve run out of special K or at valtrex commercials when the ladies life has changed and now she’s found love. And try having sex with your husband or enjoying it enough to orgasm when you can actually see your tummy moving during the whole process. 

Does any of this mean that you shouldn’t want to get pregnant and have a baby, of course not, but it certainly isn’t a glamorous process by any means.

Post # 10
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2010

it’s funny because i was telling Darling Husband that i’m not freaked out about having a kid and being a mother as much as i am of being pregnant, etc. it’s something about that unknown that really freaks me out! babies don’t seem as scary as pregnancies!

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