(Closed) Baby Flower Girl and Ring Bearers!!

posted 6 years ago in Ceremony
Post # 2
7440 posts
Busy Beekeeper

Our ring bearer will be 10, flower girl is 8. Not too old.

Post # 4
719 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2015

My ring bearer is 4, and the flower girl will be 11 months.  We are having the ring bearer pull a wagon with her in it! The same flower girl was in her mom’s wedding in July, at 7 months old, and they had a good friend carry her down the aisle, and I (MOH) held her during the ceremony.

  • This reply was modified 6 years, 5 months ago by natbrown0703.
Post # 5
47 posts
  • Wedding: June 2015

I had flower girls that were 6 and 8 and a ring barrer that was 4.  Even at 4 it was hard to get any pictures, etc with him and have him walk down the isle.  I had many family members who were younger and originally i thought it would be super cute with the little ones but then went to a few different weddings where they were crying, wouldnt walk down the isle, etc and just thought it would be too uncertain with young ones 🙂

Post # 6
1992 posts
Buzzing bee

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unicornsarereal:  I attended a wedding with 2 year olds as the flower girl and ring bearer. They were suuuper adorable but visibly scared to be up in front of so many people (100+), had to be slowly coaxed down the aisle and the poor flower girl had a meltdown during the ceremony. The older kids will probably be a little better behaved (or at least more predictable) than the very little ones.

Post # 7
2164 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: NJ

I don’t know first-hand, but I have heard the wagon idea is bad. Very little kids can fall out, trying to get up and out. The wagon can bang into pews, legs, etc. Or overturn. Risky.

Older kids are a better idea.

Post # 8
3080 posts
Sugar bee

Tiny bridal party members are cute for about 5 minutes. Photo sessions turn into hell, plus what the prior posters have said. Our next door neighbor spent a half hour trying to get her 3 year old nephew into a tuxedo, for his aunt’s wedding. Everyone was traumatized.

My flower girsl were 7 and 8 and extremely well behaved. I wouldn’t have wanted it it any other way; there’s enough other things, to worry about.

Post # 9
534 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2015

I Went to a wedding where the couples niece and nephew were both about 18 months and I guess they were used as a flower girl and ring bearer as they were both in formal wear and were carried down by their mother and grandmother at the start of the procession but I really didn’t see the ppint of they are not old enough to be able to fulfill the roles in this case it happened due to one of the mothers throwing a hissy for as her little angel wasn’t included in the ceremony. You do not have to have a flower girl or ring bearer if you don’t have anyone in your life able to do it

Post # 10
1156 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2015

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unicornsarereal:  Our ring bearer will turn 3 a week after our wedding and our flower girl (who we are already worried about due to her being an EXTREME daddy’s girl who literally cries anytime she can’t see her father) will be about 2 and a half.

The responses on this thread are not comforting lol.

Post # 11
1440 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2015

Our ring bearer will be 6 and he’s so excited to be included. Our flower girl is my niece who is barely 4. She’s excited but I’m a little worried about her – she will be sweet and cute no matter what, but she can be a little turkey sometimes. We’ve been having little talks so she understands her “job” and her mom has been talking to her too. I’d be really worried with an even younger one. But I guess it depends on the specific child. 

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