(Closed) Baby- I Want One!

posted 6 years ago in Babies
Post # 3
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: November 2014

I think you should go for it. Your SIL will be happy for you regardless of her struggles. If you think it might be the right time then it probably is!!! πŸ™‚

Post # 5
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

@PrncssDva:  I totally feel you! Fiance has a step sibling who’s wife has been trying to conceive for years unsuccessfully, I had a crazy case of baby rabies too and we knew we wanted to start trying right after getting married; I got pregnant after the first month of trying! I will feel bad telling that side of the family because I know it will depress her but at the same time you can’t walk on eggshells around people all the time.  As tragic as not being able to have a child is, it doesn’t mean the world around those people can stop to comfort them.  She will probably be jealous in her situation but I’m sure she will be very happy for you as well.  I bet she’d rather have you super fertile than stuck in the situation she is in, no one should wish ill on someone else.

Post # 6
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: February 2011

you cann;ot base your want to have kids on his sister. I know it will be difficult for her but you have to do what is best for you and your family. Don’t hold out. are you guys doing anything to avoid pregnancy right now? I charted my periods just to be on top of it but I never really took temps or anything like like that.

 

Post # 7
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

genuine question here:

can somebody explain this want to have a baby? I’ve never experienced it and can never understand when people have the feeling. what’s it like?

 

@PrncssDva: I seriously doubt you’re the only one who feels like this πŸ™‚

Post # 10
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: February 2011

@strawbs:  I can’t really explain it. I knew I always wanted to be a mother and while i’ve had moments of baby fever I usually got over it pretty quickly when i started to think about sleeping in on saturday mornings or vegging out on the couch after work. I think for some it comes with age or getting comfortable in their marriage and wanting to take the next steps to grow your family. Some women crave children (my Mother-In-Law had 13!) and some are on the complete opposite side of the fence and don’t want them ever. I dont really know how to explain it but i’ve defenitly had the fever before.

Post # 12
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

Nope. I posted something very similiar the other day. Except I want one, but am not ready. Last month right before my menses was even suppose to start I begin having horrible cramps and couldn’t figure out why…it sort of hurt in a place I didn’t know exist. I was wondering was it implantation pain or something, but only (a little more) time will tell. I want one, but I am not completely ready…. so, I don’t know, but since you are GO FOR IT GIRL! Keep me posted

Post # 13
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

@totheislnds:  13!! *dies*

I’m definitely on the other side of the fence right now. I’ve never wanted to have children. I know I’m still young and I know this may or may not change the older I get … but I’ve never had baby fever, and the idea of having children creeps me out. I can do babysitting though πŸ˜€

maybe it’s that I don’t want my own children, but I’m fine with other people’s WELL-BEHAVED children.

good luck to you girls who are TTC πŸ™‚

Post # 14
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: February 2011

@PrncssDva:  I don’t think you necessarily have to chart but if you are determined to get preggers than maybe invest in some ovulation tests? its amazing how scientific getting pregnant can be. Knowing when you ovulate is key!

Post # 16
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

@PrncssDva:  lol I’m getting married in 5 days and I still have zero desire. it also helps that my fiance has zero desire too. one of those things, you know?

but your baby fever is not uncommon. I’ve met girls in college who were desperate to get married and have children, and I just find that so stressful. I’m not working against a clock to have children because I have no desire to. But I can see how children can bring joy to people’s lives πŸ™‚ I just don’t see that happening for me.

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