(Closed) Baby Mama Drama! please help!

posted 6 years ago in Family
Post # 3
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1235 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

@vicgroesz5:  Lawyer up. Dont communicate with her on any basis except for through your lawyer. Save the emails/messages she sends to you and DO NOT respond to them. If shes THAT crazy, then others will see it and if you respond youll just be adding fuel to the fire.

Post # 5
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

@vicgroesz5:  PP had a great point. Lawyer up and communicate by emial to her the progress of the baby and save every email you send her.

The fact that she left the baby for a year to live with another man will hurt her chances. I know she is annoying but keep the emails and send them to your lawyer. Let her be bitter because she is bitter. Move on with life and if needed file harrassment charges against her.

Post # 6
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1638 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

@vicgroesz5:  The fact that she is insulting will hurt her. Keep your tone light and overly sweet. Do the cops at this point know that she is just being insane? I’m sure everytime they come over there they find nothing. Document this and ask can you get a record of everytime they came and what they saw: nothing wrong with the baby.

Post # 7
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4771 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

first if you haven’t get a paternity test.

Post # 9
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418 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

Please understand, as long as this woman is in the child’s life at all…you will likely be dealing with this craziness. Please make sure you know full well what you’re getting yourself into and what kind of life that will mean for the both of you.

Other then that, you’ve already received good advice.

 

Post # 10
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

Maintaining communication means it can be in writing.  If you can’t go through your lawyer all the time then use emails and text messages.  Don’t respond to anything malicious and deal only with the parts of her emails that deal directly with the baby.

In fact, I would only send her weekly updates about the baby’s week on a regular schedule (say, every Sunday night) and if she responds with abuse, simply ignore it.  

Honestly, it sounds like you’re in for a whole lot of drama and don’t expect it to end anytime soon.  I’ve known women like this before and watched friends of mine suffer their entire lives because of it.  Always a struggle that ends up almost bankrupting them.  Good luck to you.

 

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