(Closed) Baby Mama strikes again.

posted 6 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
2440 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

@badabing88:  Keep it classy!

Distance yourself from the people involved. $32 a month adds up to $384 per year. Maybe she’s been having a hard time with buying clothes yearly, or maybe she just thinks there is something off in the audit. I know it is frustrating and disruptive, but it’s not about you or your fi or his ex, it’s about his child. So just go to court, don’t be emotional about it, and see what happens.

Post # 4
9916 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2013

Why doesn’t he just give her $500?  That would be about $50 more than the year of $38…and probably cheaper than court.  Or just keep paying the $38 more a month…I mean it’s for HIS kids, right?

Post # 5
6110 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: October 2013

Sorry to hear that she’s being difficult. You’re right, it could come back to bite her in the ass. Unfortunately it sounds like they (your SO and the baby’s mother) aren’t on good terms and this will probably be a problem until that child turns 18 :

Good luck and I hope everything works out!

Post # 7
4311 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

If you’re not married, I wouldn’t even bother going to court.  The more pissed she sees you, the better it is for her.

Post # 10
2440 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

@badabing88:  O_O Ok…. she does sound completely off her rocker. I didn’t realize that she had been harassing you. >_< Good luck with everything.

Post # 11
1654 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2015

That woman is nuts. Especially the fact that she’s harassing you. That is wrong. I really hope everything goes okay. And I would only go to court to evil-eye the hell out of her.

Post # 13
839 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

@badabing88:  edit: I read your updates, she sounds crazy. 

Post # 16
1239 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2015

@badabing88:  Good luck.


My ex-husband and his wife get child support from me, and I’m blessed that he believes that it’s the state’s problem to regulate how much I pay. I’ve never had it changed from the divorce decree (although I did attempt it once, but the state minimum had gone up, and I was in range). 


I hope that this resolves easily for you, and try not to get to stressed out. 

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