(Closed) Baby shower after my wedding?

posted 10 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 17
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Wannabee
  • Wedding: June 2011

OH MY GOSH, I’m not alone. Thank God. I thought I was the only one in the universe that is having this same issue. My Cousin is ALSO planning her SECOND Baby Shower for her SECOND baby. She is having it the day after, even though everyone was well aware that the day after the wedding we are having a family BBQ at my parents house so my new husband and I will get to spend a little more time with our out of Country/State/County/Town guests that will be traveling a great distance to be there for our wedding. So this thunder stealing cousin of mine is purposely planning her second baby shower this day. Which means the family members that would like to attend both will be in a pickle. Yes, they will be spending the whole previous day at my wedding, but I would like to be able to spend some real time with the family that is flying in for us from Holland, and four states across America. I feel like its so rude and inconsiderate. Let us have just one day, one weekend to have the spot light. I don’t care if she hogs the spot light for the rest of our lives, just give me one weekend to spend with the guests that came for me. This is the same person who used to blow my birthday candles out, or would dive in and start ripping open my presents, or announced she was pregnant the same morning I graduated college. I guess its not much of a surprise weighing in her track record.

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