(Closed) baby shower annoyance

posted 6 years ago in Pregnancy
Post # 3
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2010

Some people just are really lazy when it comes to RSVP’s. I know for our wedding our Maid/Matron of Honor, Best Man, and good friends didn’t RSVP until I tracked them down. So maybe she just assumes you know she is coming. I can see being upset if you think the friendship is one-sided but I wouldn’t read too much into the RSVP.

Post # 4
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669 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

If I was you, I would flatout ask her why she hasn’t RSVPed; it’s an innocent question! 

Post # 5
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

sounds one sided to me and i had a bridesmaid do the same thing. I’d ask her if shes coming and then stop bending over backwards! You offered to throw her shower and the least she could do is come to yours. sometimes we always do things cuz we think the other person would do the same for us when they dont it hurts. Good luck hun!

Post # 6
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

Sorry that happened 🙁 I don’t think you are being unreasonable. I had a bridesmaid like this and since my wedding I’ve distanced myself from her as I don’t want any more hurts, sounds like she’s just not as good a friend as you.

Post # 8
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

@carriejuly:  In that case, it sounds as if she’s not as invested in the friendship as you. I’d certainly continue to be friends with her, but I wouldn’t be putting myself out there like you are anymore, especially since its not appreciated and it seems to be hurting your feelings. I’m sorry you’re going through this. I experienced the same thing with my wedding. It does suck. Make this into a learning situation. 

Post # 9
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: January 2010

Ihave had a similar experience with a friend… I found out via Facebook that she was engaged, and was not invited to the wedding. It sucks to be the only one invested in a friendship. I’m sorry you’re dealing with this!

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