(Closed) Baby shower dilemma.

posted 6 years ago in Babies
Post # 3
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1280 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: January 2012

I would just be honest with (L) and let her know that it sounds like the step-sister isn’t interested or avoiding the planning, and you are more than willing to plan this event.  I think they both (L) and step-sister are being childish to be honest with you….here you have offered to plan and host the event and they are doing everything to stop it….

Good luck in whatever you choose to do, you’re in a very precarious situation here, no matter what you say you will probably be the bad guy.

Post # 4
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2622 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

Agree, be honest. 

“L I would love to get step-sisters feedback and help, but she doesnt appear to have the time to do this so unless I hear from her I am going to move forward so you get the shower you deserve” 

Post # 5
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2856 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

@ThreeMeers:  “L I would love to get step-sisters feedback and help, but she doesnt appear to have the time to do this so unless I hear from her I am going to move forward so you get the shower you deserve”

Perfect!

It’s unfortunate that the step-sister does not want to help, but I’m sure she will move on and just appreciate everything you are doing for her.

Post # 6
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46421 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

I would send the step-sister one final message and tell her that L wants her to be involved, but that unless I hear back from her by_____, I will have to go ahead and make decisions on my own.

If I didn’t hear from her by the deadline date, I would tell L that I was gong ahead on my own.

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