(Closed) Baby suprise–six weeks too soon

posted 10 years ago in Babies
Post # 17
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1765 posts
Buzzing bee

Just relax and enjoy!!  Don’t worry about what others think!!!   Congratulations, and have your beautiful wedding.  Enjoy your day.  and tell others after the wedding if you choose to!  🙂 

Post # 18
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5496 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: April 2010

Congrats! I’m sure you are feeling emotional about the baby and wedding, but I’m so glad you are happy! How about your FI? Is he really excited? Congrats!!!

Post # 19
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7081 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2009

We felt the same way as you.  We thought it would take a whole lot longer, so our honeymoon baby definitely caught us off-guard!  It took about 10 weeks for me to sort through the feelings and get on-board… but now I can’t imagine life any other way!

Post # 21
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6593 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2010

Don’t worry what others think! You don’t have to tell everyone until after the wedding and no one is going to think anything negative they are just going to be excited for you!

Congrats!

Post # 22
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256 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2009

We weren’t anticipating getting pregnant for at least 7 more months than when we did, so I can definitely relate to the mixed feelings, even thought I felt prepared for a child beforehand. You and your Fiance will definitely run the gamut of emotions during the course of the pregnancy, including both extreme happiness and even mourning the loss of your pre-baby life.  Don’t worry about feeling however you do and do your best to work through it. Make sure to enjoy the pregnancy and your wedding as well!! Congrats!

Post # 23
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5822 posts
Bee Keeper

Don’t worry about other people doing the math!  Or if you are, then tell them the due date is one month later.  People won’t say anything about the baby being born “early.”  But really, if you were anticipating having problems conceiving, then NO ONE should judge you, they should be happy for you!  It’s great news!  Congratulations!!

Post # 24
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3124 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: December 2009

it sounds like it was meant to be 🙂 So, congrats!!

Post # 25
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570 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

Wow it is truly a blessing that you got pregnant without having to take any kind of medication! Congrats to you and I am sure everything will be just fine! I am about 6 months along now and we have barely even begun the process of planning the wedding. 🙂

Post # 26
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553 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2009

The exact same thing happened to us! I was off the pill and we were going to start trying on our honeymoon. The one time we got lazy and didn’t use protection we were pregnant, 6 weeks before our wedding. 

I felt the same way you do…It seemed very surreal and with the heightened hormones i was a complete stress ball trying to get ready for the wedding and thinking about the baby. I dealt with it by pushing baby stuff out of my head and focusing on the wedding. I would catch my mind daydreaming about the baby and just keep forcing it back out. It got me through the big day but my only regret was that I almost couldn’t wait for the wedding to be over with so that I could start letting the focus be on the baby. That being said…On my wedding day, it felt so special to know that it was not only the start of our marriage but also the start of our family. 

Congratulations and just remember that its so much better that it happened this way than if you all had to struggle for years to try to conceive. It didn’t take any one long to figure out we were pregnant before our wedding but our family was all too excited to worry about that aspect. 

Best of luck! Enjoy your wedding and know that you will have plenty of time after to focus on the pregnancy and getting ready for the baby! 

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