(Closed) bach. party advice :/

posted 6 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: January 2012

@dickinson: No, I like the idea your friends have come up with. In my friends circle there is usually a day of activities, and people come and go to different things that suit their schedule/interests. There is usually something on the tame end, like a dinner or lunch, and also a clubbing outing etc for the girls to get more rowdy.

You could do your 2 events on different nights, and you don’t have to tell anyone that you are having 2. This way, there’ll be no hurt feelings, and you’ll still get to make everyone feel included.

Post # 4
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Blushing bee

I think the two separate events are a very respectful way to deal with this situation. Im doing the same, a dinner for those that aren’t into the other stuff and a night out with the girls that would love it.

Post # 5
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2015

Two separate parties would be good. You don’t even have to officially call your more wild one your bach party, just going out with your two good college friends. 

Post # 6
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

I agree w/the other Bees, and have nothing to add.

 

I just posted to say when I read the title I thought you were having a Bach party, like the composer.  I was quite intrigued to find out what a Bach party would be like.  Hmm…maybe for your sister and the religious BMs, you SHOULD throw a Bach party…that should be pretty tame.

Post # 7
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

have the two but dont call the second one your bach party!! because that makes it so difficult!

Post # 9
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

@dickinson: I think that idea is perfect! Have a Bridal party dinner and then a crazy night of debauchery

Post # 10
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

We’re going to go the route of two events as well, just because I think it’s more practical for the girls! I know some ladies won’t want to go out on the town, but they would totally feel left out if they couldn’t attend. So we’re doing a dinner then evening on the town 🙂 

Post # 11
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Wannabee
  • Wedding: June 2011

@abirdword: LOL!! I am crying laughing about the Bach party!

Post # 12
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

@sjeanette:j  haha, thanks.  I had a friend dress up as Mozart for his bachelor party, so it seemed plausible.  lol.

Post # 13
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

2 events is the best idea–just don’t call your night of debauchery your b-party #2.  In your situation, it’s exactly what I would do.

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