(Closed) Bach Party Help, Please!!!

posted 7 years ago in April 2011
Post # 3
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185 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

I am going to BUMP this because I am in the SAME boat. I am planning my own party and the time is slowly dwindling down.

Post # 4
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

Why not just send a mass e-mail to the wedding party and tell them what you guys would like to do or where you would like to go.  Ask if anyone has any other ideas, and if not, what time is good for everyone to get together.

Post # 5
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Newbee
  • Wedding: May 2011

How important is the party to you?  It sounds like so far it has just been a stressful event.  You could hurry up and send out those e-vites, or you could scrap the party all together.  I decided not to have a bach party (at least that is my view at this point).  I have done my fair share of partying and don’t feel the need for one last blowout, but every girl is different.  I would say assess how important the event is to you, after all this is your wedding and it should be fun!

Post # 6
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

I think you just send out a big email and say here is the plan:

and outline what you all want to do.  I have a big group of friends and one great friend is getting everything planned for mine – BUT she has had no responses from people when she asks for ‘what should we do’ and input etc.  I told her just make a plan and go with it.  You can always say we would love any other ideas for activities. 

Then maybe ask something easy of everyone so you get a little surprise (you help them to do a little something for you)…. like guys – you all bring the booze for the night (maybe get a party bus/limo or for the pre party) and girls you all bring along something fun for us all to wear or do.  Example – you all get boas to wear or some sort of game to play at the bar or in the party bus.

Either way you will have more fun if you have a set plan and don’t have to discuss/argue about where you are going/what you are doing.

Good luck!

 

Post # 7
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

you could even make the plan yourselves and ask a good friend to send out the email 🙂

Post # 8
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

We planned ours together (FI and I). We have many of the same friends, we decided to a do a joint party. We will all be meeting at a restaurant in a downtown area, and then just walking to a couple of the bars and nightclubs that are just a couple blocks away.

His best man said he was going to plan it, but sometimes things fall through or people get busy with other stuff. We wanted something pretty laid back, so we just decided to plan something relatively simple ourselves.

Post # 9
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

Oh, and in terms of what you should do, if it’s not that crazy or fancy or formal or organized, i would just call the people you want to come and maybe send out a prviate facebook invite. I mean, we just texted all of our friends. it’s suepr casual, so we didn’t even bother with invites. i think you will be totally fine–don’t fret!

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