(Closed) Bachellorette Party Disappointment

posted 6 years ago in Parties
Post # 3
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774 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

Im sorry ๐Ÿ™ Its not fair that they did that to you. Some people just dont understand that not every bachellorette party is strippers and naughty things. Maybe a few days before your wedding plan a spa day with some close friend to relax.

Post # 4
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1963 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

*Hugs*  I’m so sorry this happened to you!  It doesn’t sound like your BFF took your feelings into consideration, particularly after she asked you what you wanted to do.  I don’t know the whole history between you and your BFF, but if I were you:

1) I would let them know my feelings were hurt.  I would want my BFF to let me know.

2) Can you still have a small girls night out (or in), maybe with other friends who you might share more in common with?  I think it would still be fun to relax with friends.

Post # 5
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1880 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

Awww.  {{Hugs}}.  I’m really sorry they didn’t take you into consideration when planning your party.  Perhaps you can just take comfort in the fact that they wanted to do something special for you?  Or maybe you can throw your own “girls spa day” back home with those who are able and willing to spend the time and money.

Post # 6
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6248 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 1900

Oh no.  I have to admit though that I’d expect those kinds of activities for a bachelorette in Vegas.  Not everyone is a party planner.  You’d think she’d know your likes and dislikes, being your BFF and all, but then again she may have thought the boundaries could be crossed for this special event which is often a time to get wild.  Maybe she thought you would want to party, especially since it sounds like you didn’t tell her otherwise.  Maybe try to think about it from her perspective?  The thought/effort was there, it just didn’t get executed the way you would have liked. 

Post # 7
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2401 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

Big hugs! I would have hated that too. I’m sorry it sucked.

Post # 8
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4193 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: July 2012 - Baltimore Museum of Industry

๐Ÿ™  That stinks.

I agree with PP- can you do a local girls day- manis, and then chick flick night with other friends? Or maybe a wine tasting with some friends?

Post # 9
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1810 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

๐Ÿ™ I’m sorry that your party wasn’t so great. I also think it kind of sucks that your friends didn’t listen to YOU, the bride! My Maid/Matron of Honor asked me what I wanted for a b-party and I told her I just wanted to sit back, relax, eat some dinner and drink. She ended up coming with this plan (my party is this weekend): Going out to dinner at P.F. Changs, going to see “The Five Year Engagement”, going back to her house to watch cheesy wedding movies and drinking and hanging out.

I would see if you can have a ‘re-do’ to something that YOU wanted. You still have time!

Post # 10
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5273 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: October 2009

@MapleMoose:  I agree.

While I do think she should of listened to you more (specifically about the class,) it is very odd to have have a bachelorette party in Vegas (esp when you are flying in and don’t live there) and not go to clubs. Honestly, if I had a friend who wanted a party in Vegas, I would automatically think this means she wants to party it up in some clubs too.

Post # 12
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1963 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

@nyscpa2be:  I don’t make friends very easily either.  I get where you’re coming from.  If you’re in the Midwest, let me know if you want to meet up sometime…

Post # 13
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6248 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 1900

@nyscpa2be:  Gotcha.  In that case, since you told her ahead of time you didn’t want the wild partying and the reason you went to Vegas was because that’s where she lives…. she messed up.  Sorry you had to experience those things when you asked her to avoid them.

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