(Closed) Bachelor & bachelorette party or jack & Jill

posted 7 years ago in Parties
  • poll: Your pre party
    Seperate parties - strippers sure. Both can have wild parties. Don't care : (9 votes)
    43 %
    We will be joining our party we prefer that : (6 votes)
    29 %
    Seperate parties but he better not be hitting hoochie clubs. : (6 votes)
    29 %
    No pre party for us : (0 votes)
  • Post # 3
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    Honey bee
    • Wedding: December 1999

    We did a birdal party party. The guys went to a brewery tour while the girls did the shower. Then we grilled out at our house, had a stretch esclade take us to a comedy club,and then out for the night. It was nice that everyone got to meet (most of them are friends already) and hang out so it felt like a big reunion at the wedding. We don’t really go out much since we already have kids so it was nice to enjoy a fun night with our closest friends.

    Post # 4
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    1498 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: April 2014

    We’ve tossed around both ideas and truly either of us are fine either way so we’re leaving it up to the bridesmaids and groomsmen to decide.

    I trust my Fiance. If I didn’t trust him, I wouldn’t be marrying him. Strip clubs aren’t his thing but if his guys decide to take him to one, then okay. If I had to worry about what would happen if he looked at another girl, I would have never let this ring slide onto my finger.

    Post # 5
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    1253 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: October 2012

    We are doing both. The night before our wedding we are having, “Friday Night Live”. This is a joint party for us both. It will start at around 8pm until 11pm and then we will go our separate ways. So far everyone likes this idea. Because I know some people (mothers, fathers, non drinkers and the under 21) don’t want or can’t party at night but at least they get to hang out with us the night before the wedding. So everyone wins.

    Post # 6
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    135 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: February 2012

    I hate the idea of having the bachelor/bachelorette party together. I think it’s more fun to go out with just the girls. My fiance just had his bachelorparty last night–casino and strip club. He’s hurting today but I’m glad he had fun without me!! Jeesh, you are two different sets of people in my opinion.

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