- 6 years ago
This weekend my Fiance is away at his bachelor party vacation and I was away on mine. I asked him to do ONE thing for me, and that was to just check in every once in awhile and not let me worry about him. I also said that if he was going to be away from his phone for a long time to just let me know so I don’t worry if I need to reach him. So of course, he was out of touch all day and made me worry because I didn’t hear from him once today. I had to get in touch with him about something we got in the mail and when I didn’t hear back for about 10 hours I started to worry – as in he didn’t even check in to make sure I got back from my vacation okay. Argh SO frustrating!
I have to say I had an AMAZING time on my bachelorette mini-vacation, and so many laughs with my girls. But now all I can think of is how much we are going to fight over everything he did and I did when he’s back. I am really starting to think that this is a very stupid tradition that is just asking for jealously and hurt to come up before what should be a very happy time.
In addition, two bridesmaids on FI’s side of the family canceled on me the night before, and I found out through one of their Facebook statuses. A bachelorette party should just be a fun occasion, and not something that starts family drama…very frustrating.
Just needed to vent somewhere, as I am home alone for the night 🙁