(Closed) Bachelor Parties… Call me Crazy!

posted 8 years ago in Parties
  • poll: How do you feel about your FI having a bachelor party?

    I hope he has a great time!

    I really don't want him having one

  • Post # 17
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    Bee Keeper

    @Miss Sweet Pea:  I wish my husband had had a real bachelor party. He just went out and got hammered with three of his guy friends. He has no regrets though!

    Post # 18
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: November 1999

    I have no problem with it! Fiance and his friends are off to New Orleans while my friends and I head to Vegas – I hope he has an amazing time. I told him that his only rule was, don’t get arrested.

    Post # 19
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    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: May 2012

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    @mandypop:  I wanna come roll with you.

    Post # 20
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    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: August 1900

    I’ve been with Fiance for 8 years and I trust him with my life.  I’m not worried about what’s going to happen and I just want him to have fun with his friends. 

    And I don’t want to know any of the details.

    Post # 21
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    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: August 1900

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    @mandypop:  Haha favorite reply today

    Post # 22
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: October 2009

    FIs aren’t single…so throw the “bachelor” part of the party out.

    Post # 23
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    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: June 2013

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    @September29:  same way i feel. I would be lying if I said “oh yea have fun i trust your friends”…no. I completely trust HIM I just don’t trust those “bachelor” friends of his cause most of them are whores anyway. He keeps saying they’ll mostly throw it for the benefit of them but w/e. But I can say alot of his friends are settling down in serious relationships, even marriage so I’m not THAT concerned but that night i would be wondering what their doing but won’t make it a big deal cause he knows i’m crazy lolol

    Post # 24
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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: March 2012

    When there’s alcohol involved, peer pressure from friends, and naked girls…anything is possible. Men cannot touch strippers BUT strippers can touch men, so let’s be real, they do rub their butt on your man’s groin and may slap a boob on his face. I’ve seen crazy stuff at these parties before like nipple shots. It is when the stripper sprays whip cream on her nipple and he licks it off. Of course security is next to her. I’ve seen a lot of that down here. Not sure if in other strip clubs to do same. I told my Fiance to have a blast BUT absolutely no nipple shots…LOL!!!! and NOT TO fall fool with his friends peer pressure, if he doesn’t want to do something. Many of them were single so they have no care in the world.

    Post # 25
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    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: June 2013

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    @SamanthaLovesJames:  Yea same thing I told my Fiance…now I’m even more worried with nipple shots I never heard of that smh.

    Post # 26
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    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: June 2012

    We didn’t really have money to have a party to celebrate another party lol. We got dressed up and went downtown together and 3 of our friends came. I wouldn’t have been happy if he had a big bach party without me just because I wouldn’t have gotten the same chance due to our money issues and our mutual friends.

    Post # 27
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    Helper bee
    • Wedding: August 2013

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    @SamanthaLovesJames:  I agree, they do very gross things! lol. I know a guy that once had a dollar taken out of his mouth by a strippers bare vagina. Talk about up close and personal.

    Post # 28
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    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: August 2012

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    @HeathenSwan:  at a bar, a woman thrusting her bare breasts or genitals into a man’s face will be kicked out….at a strip club that is their job…there is certainly a difference…

    Again, if you’re ok with that, it’s fine. But let’s be real here and not pretend a strip club is something it’s not.

    Post # 29
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    Helper bee
    • Wedding: September 2012

    I really hope he has a great time!

    Post # 30
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    Newbee
    • Wedding: June 2013

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    @Bazingau:  Yes the friends are exactly what I am concerned with. I totally trust Fiance and want him to have a great time at his bachelor party but I have told him multiple times I am so scared of what his crazy friends are going to come up with for him to do. I totally love all his friends but there is totally no telling what they have in store for him, they are all so crazy and out of control sometimes.

    Post # 31
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    Honey bee
    • Wedding: November 1999

    I don’t know if I would necessarily force my husband to go to a strip club, but I would not mind if he went.  I really don’t care what anyone thinks of me as a cool wife/gf anyways.  He’s grown & can do what he wants.

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