(Closed) Bachelor Parties… Call me Crazy!

posted 8 years ago in Parties
  • poll: How do you feel about your FI having a bachelor party?

    I hope he has a great time!

    I really don't want him having one

  • Post # 32
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    Honey bee
    • Wedding: April 2012

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    @athame1983:  

    sorry, but she is right. You can do things at bars without being seen and can easily go to a hotel for more. Just saying.

    Post # 33
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    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: August 2012

    We are doing separate aruff during the day (mud run and jazz club for dinner for the girls, golfing and prob a strip club for the guys) and then meeting up that night for drinks, dancing and roulette. I don’t care about the strip club for a couple reasons: 1) good for him for getting some extra attention since hes awesome and deserves a good party, and 2) my BMs SOs are also invited. If shit goes down, I will hear about it. 

    Post # 34
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    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: August 2012

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    @Cady: then why do strip clubs exist? Why wouldn’t men just go to a bar for a naked lap dance for free, rather than stuffing bills into a strippers g string

     

    Strippers are not at the club to have a good time and get drinks with their girls and maybe meet someone. They are there to dance naked for men, either on a stage or on their lap. 

     

    “I agree, they do very gross things! lol. I know a guy that once had a dollar taken out of his mouth by a strippers bare vagina. Talk about up close and personal.”


    Does that sound to you like something that normally happens at a bar??

    Post # 35
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    Honey bee
    • Wedding: April 2012

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    @athame1983:  

    strip clubs are a novelty. The men that go for no reason are just pathetic.

    Post # 36
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    Honey bee
    • Wedding: April 2012

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    @athame1983:  

    my friend was groped in a bar….

    Post # 37
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    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: November 2011

    Me too!! i was SO excited for DH for his bachelor party. The guys played paintball, then had a poker game at the house with a female stripper. I even gave his brother a 20 to give to the stripper to make sure he got a good lap dance. He can be such a tight person..I wanted her to loosen him up! 🙂 I just don’t get why girls get so psycho about it. You’re marrying him. So you MUST trust him, right? And his friends? Eh, men will be men!

     

    Post # 38
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    Helper bee
    • Wedding: July 2012

    I wanted my fiance to have a bachelor party more than he did — to the point where I thought I was going to have the plan the damn thing myself (no best man in our wedding!). In the end, his friends stepped up. PHEW! I’m stoked for him!

    Post # 39
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    Honey bee
    • Wedding: April 2012

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    @athame1983:  

    look. Not trying to argue. I get what you are saying. But understand that things happen at bars too All of the stories I have heared of cheating occuring at a bachelor party happened with a girl from a bar.

    Post # 40
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: November 1999

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    @Cady:  agreed, I think most guys would think twice before cheating with a stripper – it seems much more likely that if a guy was going to cheat it would be with a girl in a bar.

    Post # 41
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    Helper bee
    • Wedding: July 2011

    LOL…I chose “have a great time.”  When my DH and I got engaged, I asked him if he would have a bachelor party.  He said, “probably not.” I said…”hmm, you should.”  He looked at me funny and then said “haha, you just want me to so that you can have one with strippers too.”  He was right, but honestly, I trusted/trust him so I wanted him to have a good time.

    Post # 42
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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: July 2013

    I hate the mentality that the bachelor/ette party is your last night out forever because soon you’ll be shackled to this other person OH NO.  That is what I hate.  Our bachelor/ette parties are not about a last night out–we’re going out the night of our wedding and will not suddenly start sitting at home and watching TV all the time.

    Our parties are about celebrating with friends, getting to be the guest of honor and having a good time.  Also my bridesmaid bought me a bridal pirate hat to wear.

    Post # 44
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    Helper bee
    • Wedding: October 2012

    Fiance and I aren’t having bachlorette/bachelor parties…it just isn’t our personality. We aren’t party people. Our idea of going out is going to the diner down the street! haha. I guess I am lucky. I think that if he did want one though I wouldn’t like it. Not because I don’t trust him, but because I just think they are nasty and pointless. 

    Post # 45
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    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: November 1999

    Fiance has not had 1 guys night since we started dating – or at least has not ditched me for the guys at all! So, I really want him to have one and am genuinely excited for him to have his bach party, I hope his Bridesmaid or Best Man comes through and plans something awesome (since they’re all married with kids already) and that he has a great time! I have a no stripper rule so I’m not worried at all – he doesn’t like strippers anyways so it’s a win win!

    We originally were going to have a joint party because I hate the idea of bach parties, but I just want him to go have fun with his friends so much since he never gets to, so we scrapped that idea!

    Post # 46
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: October 2012

    My Fiance is getting two. TWO.

    So obvs I don’t care that he’s having one (or two. guh) and I hope he has a good time.  The only thing I put the kibbosh on for his bachelor party is that for one, they wanted to have a party at our house before they get the party bus to the city, and I said abso-freaking-lutely not.  Because I would be the one prepping, putting together all the food, probably cooking most of the food (at least anything that can’t be grilled), and cleaning up while Fiance moans into a toilet the next day.  Plus I’d then have to disappear for 4-5 hours and give 40 guys free reign over my house.

    Yeah, I think it was pretty understandable that I said “you’re out of your f’ing mind” when the best man brought THAT plan up.

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