(Closed) Bachelor Party

posted 6 years ago in Grooms/men
  • poll: How do you feel about strippers at a bachelor party?
    I don't care, it's his bachelor party : (131 votes)
    49 %
    I don't like them, and I don't want him having any : (136 votes)
    51 %
  • Post # 3
    Member
    1281 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: May 2013

    All I’m going to say is I’m very interested in seeing what the results are of this poll.  I know many women in real life who aren’t OK with strippers and are afraid to admit it to their friends or SO in fear that they will be looked at like a prude or nag.  

    Post # 4
    Hostess
    7561 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: January 2013

    It really doesn’t bother me. Strippers are kinda normal for bachelor parties, it’s not like my Fiance is going to a strip club regularly or anything. 

    Post # 5
    Member
    1230 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: August 2011

    Don’t like ’em.  He didn’t have one (that I know about anyway).  We went out together and had our own bachelor/bachelorette party…..

     

     

    Post # 6
    Member
    963 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: August 2011

    It doesn’t bother me. In fact, before our wedding I encouraged my husband to have a bachelor party at a strip club. He wasn’t really into the idea, but I told  him he should do it because it’s tradition

    Post # 8
    Member
    1587 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: January 2013

    To me, its ok to look… but not to touch… if hes going to go watch strippers then thats all fine and dandy but if I found out he got a lap dance then I wouldnt be too happy. However I am lucky and when Fiance did go to vegas for his very early bachelor party, the guys took him to the peelers and he said he couldnt wait to get out of there and refused a lap dance. I love my man so much. 

    Post # 9
    Hostess
    7561 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: January 2013

    @tnt1128:  It doesn’t bother me if he goes for a special occasion – like for another guy’s bachelor party. I’m secure with my relationship and trust my Fiance not to cross the line. If he wanted to cheat, he would…going to a strip club doesn’t change that. 

    Post # 10
    Member
    807 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: April 2013

    They don’t bother me, but i am probably biased bc a) I’ve been to strip clubs with him and b) they just aren’t his thing. His former roommate dated a stripper for a long time so we have a different exposure to that whole situation….I do totally understand why a lot of women dislike them, but for us, it’s a non-issue.

    I do agree with you that the bachelor/ette party shouldn’t be a “last night single” kind of thing…if you intend to spend your life with that person, you should already be showing that commitment.  

    Post # 11
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    73 posts
    Worker bee
    • Wedding: May 2013

    I know my Fiance won’t do anything to hurt me.  He can look, but not touch and I am confident enough in our relationship to know that.  I don’t mind at all.

    Post # 12
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    963 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: August 2011

    @tnt1128:  To me it’s a tradition because it’s something that is very common for men to do and a lot of men and their friends assume that it’s part of the bachelor party. Also look at a portral of bachelor in TV or movies and it’s always with strippers, so that’s part of what makes it very typical.

    My husband watches porn, so I really don’t see much difference between that and going to a strip club. It’s the same “look but don’t touch” scenario. Obviously if he was going every night, there’d be a problem.

    Post # 14
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    1269 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: May 2013

    I agree with the no-touchy rule. Seeing as my girls might take me to one just for laughs (though I’ve already told them NOT to get me a dance and I have a strict no-touchy rule) that the same would have to be ok for the guys.

    Post # 15
    Member
    488 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: November 2012

    I feel like the more girls stress to their guys they don’t want them to have strippers or go to the strip clubs the more they will want to (well, some of them). I’ve always been super casual about it to my Fiance but he doesn’t really ever express wanting to have a Bach party or go to a strip club…

    Post # 16
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    1306 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: August 2012

    This is gonna be a long post LOL I’ll try to keep it short…

    I am okay with Darling Husband going to strip clubs. If he wanted to go to a strip club for his bachelor party then I would have been okay with that. I would not have been okay with him having in-house strippers/female entertainment, as that is not the norm around here.

    I really disagree with the whole idea that it is your “last night out” before commitment for life. Really, your last night out to act like a single person was the night BEFORE you asked me to be your girlfriend. If you would not act/do a certain thing on any given day, then you should not do it on your bachelor/bachelorette night, IMO.

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