(Closed) Bachelor Party

posted 8 years ago in Grooms/men
  • poll: How do you feel about strippers at a bachelor party?

    I don't care, it's his bachelor party

    I don't like them, and I don't want him having any

  • Post # 17
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    Honey bee
    • Wedding: October 2018

    I wouldn’t want him going, bachelor party or otherwise. He doesn’t want to go anyway, so it works for us. I wouldn’t want to go to a strip club for my bachelorette either. 

    Post # 19
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    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: April 2019

    I don’t like strippers, don’t want him having any, and he feels the same way (and yeah he does feel that way, not just saying that to please me because when we were just friends he said the same thing) so neither of us will be having strippers at our Bachelor/Bachelorette parties 🙂

    Post # 20
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    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: April 2019

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    @tnt1128:  I agree, just because someone doesn’t like strippers, doesn’t want their Fiance to go to a strip club, etc does NOT mean they are insecure in their relationship. those that implied otherwise were being very judgemental, ignore them

    Post # 21
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    Honey bee
    • Wedding: October 2018

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    @Jacqui90:  I completely agree. Neither of us is into porn either. It’s just not our thing. It has nothing to do with our relationship or how much I trust him. Trust and strippers should have nothing to do with each other. 

    Post # 24
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    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: February 2014

    I don’t like them and he knows this. There will NOT be strippers. But he isn’t the type of guy who would go anyway (has never been in his life). They will probably end up going to a cabin in the mountains for bbqing, video games and hiking.

    Post # 26
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    Newbee
    • Wedding: August 2013

    It doesn’t bother me at all. I know I’m having one for my bachelorette party & he doesn’t care. 

    Post # 27
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    Honey bee
    • Wedding: October 2018

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    @tnt1128:  FH said something similar to me early in our relationship. He doesn’t want me watching it; I don’t want to watch it. I don’t want him watching it; he doesn’t want to watch it. It’s not a problem. Other people can watch it. That’s fine and I won’t judge. I only have a problem when people judge my relationship for our decisions. 

    Post # 28
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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: July 2013

    I do not have a problem with my Fiance going to a strip club for his bachelor party, in fact I encouraged it. I want him to have fun, live it up. My only rule on the matter is you can look, but not touch. There is nothing wrong with it, stripping is a job, they get paid to have men (and some women) oogle over their bodies to put their kids through school, go through college and other typical life situations. 

    My Fiance does not typically go to strip clubs, I think since we’ve been together in the last 5 and half years he has gone maybe twice to a strip club? He usually goes with a friend and they hangout and eat the food and enjoy the “natives.”

    In the end I know that I am the reason he comes home, I know he is not a cheater and I am confident enough in our relationship, my body and my Fiance to not be bothered by his eyes looking at other women’s bodies. *shrugs* I don’t find it that big of a deal, and don’t want to censor what he can and cannot see/do in his life. 

    Post # 29
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    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: November 1999

    Since men are turned on visually, why is looking but not touching ok?

    Going and getting turned on by another woman? Not ok in my book. Fortunately we are on the same page on this.

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