(Closed) Bachelor Party

posted 8 years ago in Grooms/men
  • poll: How do you feel about strippers at a bachelor party?

    I don't care, it's his bachelor party

    I don't like them, and I don't want him having any

  • Post # 47
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    Helper bee
    • Wedding: November 2012

    @tnt1128:  

     

    I don’t care either way, personally. You can’t control what they do. Making an issue out of it is just going to be make it seem all the more naughty and therefore all the more enticing.

     

     

     

    Post # 48
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: November 1999

    Well, I tried to arrange a bachelor party bus for my Fiance he asked me to cancelled it because he doesnt want it. He said that he would rather have a Jack & Jill party with all our friends. I was shocked when he said it. I personally didnt care if he did have one because I know who I am and do worry about other women.

    Post # 49
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    Newbee
    • Wedding: December 2013

    I trust my man and I know he wouldn’t do anything to disrespect me in anyway.. Hey I go see strippers with him. I say let him have his fan and trust he wouldn’t don’t do anything to hurt u

    Post # 50
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    Newbee
    • Wedding: April 2013

    I wouldn’t mind if there went to a strip club as part of their bachelor party. But I definitely would not want my Fiance to get a lap dance. That would upset me. 

    Post # 51
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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: April 2013

    Although I really truly don’t care if he has strippers or not, my Fiance hates strip clubs. I can’t get him to go within 25 feet of one. His thoughts are why would he go and spend his money on someone who dances for him while “pretending” to like him for the next 10 minutes. Lucky for him I can mimic most of those moves and strip for him on a regular basis 😀 

    Post # 52
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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: September 2012

    I’m thankful he doesn’t like strippers because I’m completely against them. Any kind of temptation is kind of a big deal to me. I’ve heard so many stories about things going wrong when strippers are involved.

    Post # 53
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    Newbee

    It’s the same as everything else- respecting one another’s boundaries. If you’re ok with it, that’s fine. If you’re not, that’s fine too.

    My Fiance has never been to a strip club, never had an interest in it. We talked about it and he knows I’m not ok with him spending money on a naked woman. He doesn’t love the idea of male strippers for me, either. We plan on doing a partly coed party in Atlantic City.

    Post # 54
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    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: October 2015

    Doesn’t bother me. SO doesn’t like strippers but even if he did, I wouldn’t care. I trust him completely, if he wants to look, let him look.

    His bachelor party will probably be him and his buddies playing poker and getting drunk.

    Post # 55
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    Buzzing bee

    It doesnt bother me, cause the bachelor parties are always in good fun. My SO told me about a bachelor party the gang went to before I came along and I laughed my ass off. I trust him and his group of friends to not have the we-got-so-wasted-one-of-us-married-a-goat-and-X-got-arrested-kind of party. If they have those kind of friends, I wouldnt want them in the wedding party, and question marrying him.( You cant pull a duck out of the pond after his whole life, you know)

    the more you stress that he cant do things, the more you are stressing on your self. As long as you and your SO are honest with each other, whats the big deal?

    (Most strippers have a no touching policy anyway)

    Post # 56
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    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: March 2013

    I’m ever so glad that there is onbly 1 gentlemen’s club in our area!  My FH has been doing their advertising for years (and OH HOW! at the airbrushing he’s done), DJ’d there a few times so he could mark something off his bucket list (this includes a behind stage cam so he knew when to cue the songs, and he’s seen some trash!), and pretty much knows all the ladies there on a REAL first name basis.   So it would be no good for him.  In his words, “I’ve seen behind the curtain, and it’s just sa ugly as the wizard.”

    Post # 57
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    Honey bee
    • Wedding: April 2014

    @tnt1128:  ive been a bartender in a strip club for 10 years and i have danced for 6 years in the past. i think it all depends on your man. i trust mine so i dont care but that was not the case with some of my EX’s. so i think it depends if you think your man is into that kind of thing.

    but remember this the dancers are only doing there JOB they dont want our men just there $$$ and most of the time from what ive seen its the grooms friends that push on with the dances and getting the groom up on stage for the girls to dance on him.

    Post # 58
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    Helper bee
    • Wedding: August 2015

    I don’t like them. It’s a deal breaker for me, and I have absolutely no problem voicing my opinion to him about this. I also don’t give one flying shit if other people label me a prude because at the end of the day, they’re not the ones who have to deal with the reality of being in a reltionship where they are unhappy and uncomfortable.  If a guy needs to see other women’s titties so bad, then he doesn’t need to be dating me. End of story.

    Post # 59
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    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: October 2012

    I told mine I’d be disappointed if there weren’t strippers at his bachelor party lol

    Post # 60
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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: June 2013

    I trust my man. i was going to pay for one- he doesn’t want one. He asked if he could get a lap dance from me instead lmao. the difference is that a stripper may get his little dude to stand up but so can a commercial for some Game or something. What’s she can’t do is make it go explode. Only his hand or you should be doing that. To a stripper he is cash and to him she is porn. If its a bad habit ok then discuss it but otherwise- let it go

    Post # 61
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    Helper bee
    • Wedding: October 2012

    It would bother me. Both Fiance and I are virgins, so it would be really uncharacteristic for him to want to look at another woman, and I would be hurt.  If he does wind up looking at strippers, it’s becaue of his groomsmen.  If it happens, I never want to hear about it. 

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