(Closed) Bachelor party- am I too controlling?

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 77
9681 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper

@letigre:  +1, my husband is the same way. He can’t understand why anyone wouldn’t want their wife to come along. He’s too cute.

Post # 78
1462 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2015

@goldfish2308: Not controlling. It doesn’t seem like your Fiance really cared to go to a strip club in the first place. Not all guys are into that kind of thing, including my SO, who I know for sure will not want to go to a strip club for his future bachelor party, even though I am ok with it if he does want to go. I would refrain from tagging along with your girls though and have separate parties.

Post # 79
834 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2013 - The front lawn of our church

I don’t think you were controlling at all. He asked your opinion and you were honest. Sounds like a healthy conversation to me:) It doesn’t matter what other couples are comfortable with. This is your relationship and your feelings. 

Post # 80
1998 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2015

@Sunfire:  Hahaha I love that story about your son! Actually, SO and I already have this agreement that he would do the exact same thing if one of his friends suggests strippers. My SO hates strip clubs. His friends dragged him in once (before we were together) and he was super uncomfortable. He’s afraid they would make him go again so I told him to say he can’t go and blame it on me 🙂

I think you and your Fiance handled the situation like mature adults, OP. You’re not controlling, you just know what you’re not comfortable with and you’re not afraid to speak your mind, which is great. 

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