(Closed) Bachelor party gone wrong

posted 6 years ago in Grooms/men
Post # 3
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

I would be LIVID!!!! having those nasty ass girls in OUR home… i would flip shit like he has never seen. and those friends of his would also get a new asshole ripped!!! omg im angry for you! but like you said wahts done is done and considering you set zero restrictions.. but omg…

Post # 5
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135 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

@graygodess20:  +1 totally agree! and my Fiance always wonders why I don’t trust his friends even though we’re all cool. At the end of the day their guys and its always “guy code” to them smh…I’m not surrprised the friends didn’t say anything smh especially if your Fiance didn’t have a problem with it.

Post # 6
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135 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

The only restriction I had was no champagne room lol…i guess I have to add the house on there! but we’re thinking of doing a jack and jill type thing in a different state.

Post # 7
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2012

Unfortunately you placed zero restrictions on the bachelor party and he obviously took full advantage of that.  It seems as though your communication means one thing to you and something different to him.

I would be upset.  I would be upset at myself for taking it for granted that intoxicated men with no boundaries would do the right thing and not cross a line like that.

It’s done.  All you can do now is make your feelings known to him.  You can tell him that you are very disappointed in his lack of judgment and hope going forth he will never do something so clueless again.

Strippers in the groom’s house is a new one on me.  Classy.  Ugh. 

Post # 9
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135 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

Yea thats crazy! I wouldn’t even talk to the “friends” for a while…are any of them in your wedding?

Post # 10
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4275 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

Yeah, I am pretty laid-back on the strip club thing, but this would totally piss me off.

Post # 11
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1715 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

I would no longer speak or communicate with the ones who organized this. Your Fiance didnt know and was probably too drunk and didnt want to make a scene by saying something but his friends knew dam well and ya just not impressed.

Post # 13
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2012 - The Gables Inn, Santa Rosa, CA

Ok, I’m clearly in the minority on this one, but what exactly is the big deal here? 

It’s not like your house is some sacred shrine and that letting in “those women” somehow desecrated it.  

You knew he was having a bachelor party, you set NO RESTRICTIONS, you even EXPECTED his to spend some time with strippers– why does the venue matter that much???

 

Post # 14
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135 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

@wedding39: Father? smh!!! its never any excuse for guys I swear….I wouldn’t even talk to them for a while…only Fiance of course by default lol 

Post # 15
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

@wedding39:  I think that you are exactly right that you didn’t feel the need to specify “No strippers in our home.”  Don’t let anyone let you feel guilty for not specifying that…I would think it was a given that it is very disrepectful. 

Post # 16
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

Can you send strippers round to their houses?

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