- 6 years ago
- Wedding: August 2012
I’m feeling a little bummed about the bachelor party for my Fiance… that may not happen! He has two guys standing for him. Groomsman initiated the bachelor party discussion and set a date. Fiance and Best Man agreed to the date. A location was picked. Within a few days, Fiance got word that the date had to be changed, since the guy who owned the location couldn’t be around. Also, Groomsman realized that there was a major annual concert going on on that date, that he missed last year ‘because of a wedding’. Fiance got back to him, to tell him that this was the only date a bachelor party could happen and that maybe they could find an alternative location, since there’s no other available weekend. We’re waiting for his response. This guy is a pretty mild, relaxed guy, who we know isn’t doing this to be mean, but it sucks! Best Man suggested the alternative of gong to the city to bar hop, but Fiance is not interesed in bar hopping at all. The original plan was a house party or a video game marathon… something to that effect.
I’m hoping that Best Man can get a little something going in the city (where he lives) that is more FI’s style. I really want him to have his party and right now he’s feeling let down and says he doesn’t really care anyway. I’m trying to keep my nose out of it, but I feel like I want to jump in and gently make sure that Groomsman knows that Fiance will miss his one chance for a bachelor party. If he still wants to do his concert, that’s his choice. But I still want Fiance to have his party, if possible! Any advice, Bees?