(Closed) Bachelor Party the night before the wedding

posted 6 years ago in December 2012
Post # 3
2419 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2015

No way in hell would my SO be allowed to have his bachelor party the night before the wedding. I don’t want to deal with a hungover groom the day of.

Post # 4
2226 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: January 2012

Not a chance! Who would want to be nursing a hangover on their wedding day?!

Post # 5
317 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 2018

Yeah…NO. Who wants to be tired and possibly hungover for their wedding?!

Post # 7
963 posts
Busy bee

Not a good idea.

Post # 8
5797 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2011

Terrible idea

ETA: Wanted to add that its not just the potential hangover that makes me think this is a bad idea. The night before our wedding I expected my Darling Husband to help us host our guests that were kind enough to fly in to celebrate with us.

Post # 9
1710 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2013 - Walt Disney World

No way! At the latest, two nights before the wedding!

Post # 10
1278 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2013

In my case I would be ok with it BUT only because my FI’s brother, best man, is only 18 and their plans are to go paintballing and shooting because my Fiance isnt into to club/bachelor party/dribking scene anymore  I am still doing that for mine. But all that aside, I am sure your Fiance will be fine on the wedding day. He knows how much it means to you and that he needs to look good in pics. Plenty of hangover remedies out there  Good luck with your wedding this weekend  Im sure it will be perfectInnocent

Post # 11
50 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

I see nothing wrong with them going out the night before, when you’re getting ready they can sleep in and detox lol. I could be nerve wracking but I think you should just drop it. He’ll do what he does. You really don’t want to start your marriage off being the boss of him like his mother lol. He’ll be alright and if he’s not then he lack better judgment and that’s who you’re marrying.

If you’re worried about him being hung over make sure he’s SUPER hydrated before he goes to bed with water or gatoraid, with some fast acting advil he’ll be alright lol.


What my fiance and I are doing is having our Bachelor(ette) parties months before the wedding so he can completely throw down like a frat boy lol. The night before the wedding we’re going to do a Girls Ritual & Guys Outing where we take everyone invited to the wedding who has already arived, and presumably have a more reasonable outing but I’m sure it’s going to be just the same. 


It was his idea to have the bachelor parties months before the wedding because it allowed him more time to spend with his guys. And they’re BIG pranksters, and since their men what ever prank is pulled can be washed off, healed, or grown back in a couple of months lol.


Post # 12
1069 posts
Bumble bee

Definitely NO! My bf takes two days to get over a night of drinking and he sucks the day after (lol) so no way would I be ok with that.

Post # 13
178 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

Thankfully both my Fiance and I are opposed to this. I don’t have an issue going out and getting a couple of drinks the night before, but the wedding day is a big day, and you need a good night of sleep. Plus you want to be at your best that day, not potentially hung over.

Post # 14
6741 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2014


Oh, you were serious?  Heck no.

Post # 15
1342 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

Absolutely not!!!

Post # 16
443 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

I think it totally depends. A bach party in the traditional sense of strips clubs, getting drunk, walking in the door when the sun starts shining the next morning etc then hell no. BUT – If he can guarantee not to get wasted and to be home by a certain time then sure…

We did this for a bachelorette actually – just a bunch of girls, at a club. We shared a bottle of champers, got our groove on for a bit and I was back at my hotel room by 10:30. She was home before her hubby to be who was spending time with his parents.

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