(Closed) Bachelor party went too far…how to move beyond?

posted 8 years ago in Relationships
Post # 46
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Newbee
  • Wedding: April 2018

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Notcool :  I read this and put my foot down. There is no way in hell I am going through this garbage so close to my wedding day (after all the work and effort to make it a fun night for us both).

Pardon my french but fuck this hurtful and inconsiderate tradition. I cannot in good conscience marry someone who would put me through this shit. 

Post # 47
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Helper bee

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LadyLeah789 :  sorry to hear this.i dont buy his explanation for how makeup got on the bottom of the shirt where it would be tucked in. i think she blew him if you know what i mean. how on earth would facial makeup get there????even if she was twirlilng the shirt around herself, still doesnt explain it.

And i also think that the other dudes would not have been there at that time. i think he thought he would have some fun on his last day of freedom.

however the only good thing i can say, is that yeah maybe he did some stuff with a hoe. that doesnt mean he loves her. he loves you and wants to marry you. he was probably drink and h#rny

so….i thnk he is a cheater and will not change after marriage. he is also a liar. i dont think he would leave you but there are serious issues you need to work out withi him

 

Post # 48
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Helper bee

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Diana_ :  im getting that he either loves you but doesnt respect you OR he isnt emotionally ready and mature enough to get married. either way i would warn you to get out while you can. his long history of frequenting girly bars and such does not seem like it will stop. when you are old and wrinkly looking can you honestly see him being faithful and not doing that anymore?

maybe he needs couples counsellig

Post # 49
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Buzzing bee

Why are women not MORE REVOLTED about “bachelor parties” than they are? Why do MEN tolerate this “custom”?

Here’s an idea- stay home, drink a quart of vodka, have sex with your Fiance, sleep it off in the bath tub.

Cheaper, neater, safer, not really less convivial than being surrounded by a bunch of other guys, with everyone together making asses of themselves.

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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: October 2017

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Post # 51
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Newbee

How I look at this story is : If he was so terrified to tell you about a ‘lapdance’ I doubt he would ever tell you if something else ever happened. I’d divorce, but then again I’m really cut-throat in my relationships and if someone lied over a lapdance thats pretty ridiculous…

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