(Closed) Bachelor problem…

posted 5 years ago in Parties
Post # 2
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2017

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atalibrandi :  the entire point of a bachelor party is to have a guys weekend with his friends. Sucks that you’re not having a party, too, but o think you’re being a bit selfish and immature spoiling this for him 

Post # 3
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

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atalibrandi :  What a dick. If it was men only I could understand, but why is it ok for other girls to be invited, but not you?

Post # 6
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

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atalibrandi :  Why don’t you book a ticket and tag along then? I’d make a stand over this.

Post # 7
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: February 2018 - Emerald at Queensridge

Bee, that’s awfully fishy that other girls are going but you’re not allowed to go. I would “keep an eye out,” so to speak.

Post # 9
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2016

My husband’s best girlfriend went on his bachelor party trip. Everyone shared the same hotel room. I stayed home alone and didn’t have a bachelorette party. It never once made me feel like my husband didn’t love me or care about me. I just made a fun me-time weekend out of it. I watched my favorite movies, ordered take-out from my favorite chinese place, drank wine, and just relaxed which was honestly so great to have right before the wedding.

It sounds like you don’t trust your fiance and have some insecurities that are coming out over this weekend. 

Post # 12
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Newbee
  • Wedding: September 2017

What girls are going? Girlfriends of his friends or does he have female friends going? 

I know it’ll be hard, especially because you’ll be by yourself, but maybe you can fit in a relaxation massage? Some time by the beach? Retail therapy?  

Try and trust your fiancé and know that he’ll make all the best choices, plus he’s going to be bragging about how amazing you are the whole weekend anyhow!!! 

Post # 14
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2017

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atalibrandi :  I did read your post – you didn’t say how many girls, just that girls would attend, which I intetpreted differnently. If it’s a coed party, you should be included. That said – your Fiance is claiming it’s not a coed party if I read your response correctly. YOU are assuming that the girls will attend, but he’s claiming they won’t so it’s hard to really have a leg to stand on here. Either you trust him, in which case you shouldn’t go, or you’re straight up calling him a liar by saying that the girls are attending. 

Honestly, bee, if you’re worried about your Fiance get blackout crazy with some girls…I think you have bigger issues than this party. 

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